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So what did she tell you about the conversation between her mom and her. I know you said it was vague but did she tell you anything at all about it? If she didn't think the pics would show up at all, I don't understand that part. Who sent them to her? Somebody had to be taking them.

Do you both get enough breathing space from each other? Do you go out with your friends and she goes with her friends? I know you wrote also that next semester you all would go out dancing and do fun things together, what have you all been doing the last 1 1/2 years for fun? I know you said you were more mature than most 20 year olds but you still have to have fun. Have you been doing that the whole time you have been together or have you gotten into a rut where you two do the same things all the time. Do you normally take her out dancing?
About the conversation, she really just told me she was confused about some things and at first she said it wasn't even about us and that we were fine, but it came out later that she feels torn between her mom and me. She has a hard time splitting up her time and thought that she had to choose one or the other to make happy. I told her it should not be a competition and to take as much time to herself/for her family that she needs, and things have been alot smoother since then. I don't want to pull her away from her family at all, because I honestly like them more than my own sometimes.

The pictures showed up on "facebook" and she was tagged in the picture by the girl who took the picture, so it notified my girlfriend of the picture, and I was with her when she checked her mail and saw the notification and then went to see the pictures.

As far as breathing space, we have had a bunch lately due to her taking organic chemistry from 10-5pm monday through thursday, so usually i will see her around 6:30 to 10:00 pm after school. The last year and a half we have gone to some parties and stuff, but I like going to parties hosted by friends/christmas parties, etc and have kind of gotten tired of the normal frat parties where everyone goes to get drunk and try to pick up girls. I will admit we have not done a lot in the last 6 months as far as parties go though, and I hope we can do more this next semester. I wouldn't mind going to apartment parties and stuff, and I just want to have a good time and make sure she is having a good time too. The thing is though, the one time she went to a local club dancing earlier in our relationship, she said she missed me and just wanted to come home anyway, and she never went back to the club again. I will dance with her and go to parties next semester as much as I can though with her, it's just hard given the immense work load of an engineering degree at Virginia Tech.





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