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:wave: Okay so I am new to the dating scene and could really use some advice.

I went on a date with a guy on Tuesday. Everything went pretty well (at least in my opinion). So it is now Sat and I havent heard from him since. We live 40 miles from eachother and tomorrow I will be in the city he lives in for a wedding. So I figured since I'm going to be in town I may as well give him a call. If he doesnt answer I was going to say "Hi ***** this is ***** and I was just giving you a call, I am in town tonite for a friends wedding and thought I would see if you would be interested in getting together tonite, let me know what you think. Talk to you later." And then if he doesnt ever call me back after that I wont call him again.

What do you think? Is it alright for me to call him and let him know i am in town asking if he wants to get together, or will i sound desperate? Or should I just wait it out until he calls me another time?

Cause I figure if I call him and he doesnt answer and doesnt return my call then I can just let it go and not call him again, but there may be a chance if I call that he may be interested... so...i dont know what i should do....either way there shouldnt be too much to loose. Maybe I should just wait til he calls me or maybe I should just take a chance and call.

I appriciate any advice you can give.

Thank you :)
I don't think its necessarily a bad thing to text hi to him....


My friends have labelled me a serial dater b/c i go on about 2-3 new dates a week when I am not dating anyone exclusive. So, I do have quite a bit of experience in dating new guys. In my experience, ones who don't call back soon after a date are not totally interested. Like you think, he may be interested to see you while you are in his town, but most likely he's not really into YOU. He may just have not felt a spark. He may just go out if he has nothing else to do or if he thinks something sexual may happen. If a guy really likes you he'll let you know. If it was me, I wouldn't waste my time. Who wants to be with someone that maybe be interested in you, maye not. Why put effort into something if there is not clear potential? I'd be looking somebody at the wedding! maybe txt him if you want, but only use him as a plan B, if you're willing to recognize his behaviour is sending msgs that he's not into it.

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