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Yes I agree with Blastoff...Perhaps he simply likes older women...especially if he is looking at nude photos of them which by the way does sound a bit gross..he being 22 and looking at a nude picture of a woman who is 60. I guess he likes that motherly figure. You would be too young to fit that role.

What is so interesting about your post is that you go in detail about this ex boyfriend, but you don't say that much about your current boyfriend. I think you need to concentrate more on your current boyfriends good positive qualities and the life you share together. As I said in an earlier post this week, the almost perfect life or person can be boring at times. Perhaps you are bored a bit with your current boyfreind because he doesn't have all this drama. Who knows, but definitely move on and don't let what this ex is currently doing worry you. He is your ex and it is okay to think about him, but to actually get upset over who he lives with or that you wasn't good enough for him is just a waste of your physical being! You are worrying over nothing..honestly! ;)
[QUOTE=ncyky;3106361]Yes I agree with Blastoff...Perhaps he simply likes older women...especially if he is looking at nude photos of them which by the way does sound a bit gross..he being 22 and looking at a nude picture of a woman who is 60. I guess he likes that motherly figure. You would be too young to fit that role.

What is so interesting about your post is that you go in detail about this ex boyfriend, but you don't say that much about your current boyfriend. I think you need to concentrate more on your current boyfriends good positive qualities and the life you share together. As I said in an earlier post this week, the almost perfect life or person can be boring at times. Perhaps you are bored a bit with your current boyfreind because he doesn't have all this drama. Who knows, but definitely move on and don't let what this ex is currently doing worry you. He is your ex and it is okay to think about him, but to actually get upset over who he lives with or that you wasn't good enough for him is just a waste of your physical being! You are worrying over nothing..honestly! ;)[/QUOTE]

Your response made the most sense to me- thanks so much.
I do guess I get bored at times and I know for awhile in the start of our relationship, I actually started fights over small things just because I needed the drama- I had grown so used to it!:( Thankfully, I have learned that about myself and have stopped that awful rountine! Thanks for your advice on the focusing on good qualities thing-- you are absolutely right on that one and I will try to do that more. Thanks again, you really helped!!!





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