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First of all, I think it's sweet you sent him those pictures. I've done the distance thing before and sometimes you need a little spice to help bridge the gap!

I do agree with the others that this is outright WEIRD, though. In what context could be possibly think it's okay to show these photos to his MOM???? I would be mad if he showed them to his friends, but at least then I could understand his bragging excuse. His mother is a completely different story.

I don't necessarily think it's time to break up with him or anything, but I completely agree that the photos should stop for awhile since he's shown that he can't be trusted to keep them private. I'd also keep my eyes peeled for other small betrayals. Remember, if you end up marrying him, you end up becoming a part of his family. As someone who has VERY involved in-laws (they come over a LOT, she calls a LOT, he's definitely the "star child" of his family), it's important to me that my husband sets clear boundaries for his family and makes sure we have plenty of private time AND private experiences as a couple. He's great about this, but I don't know what I would do if he wasn't!! I would just be aware of the situation and make sure he isn't sharing other details with his family that you consider private. There's a difference between doing something kind of creepy that makes you a little POd, and involving his mom in your sex or personal life that will cause a rift between you. I don't think he's crossed that line yet, but it's something worth being aware of!





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