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Hi kkmom :wave:,

I think the first question you have to ask yourself is what is your [I]true[/I] motive for wanting your ex-fiance back? Would you feel this way if he didn't have a new girlfriend who professed her love for him in only 2 weeks?

If you would in fact feel this way regardless of whether or not he had a new girlfriend then I think you need to tell him how you feel. Sometimes we don't realize what we have until it is gone. But you have to realize too that he tried to get you back and you said no. He may very well see your professing your love as a way to keep him from moving on with his life. If you do decide to tell him you made a huge mistake by breaking it off then you are going to have to be prepared for him telling you that you are too little too late.

If you would not feel this way if your ex were still single then you just need to keep moving on. Sometimes we want what we can't have, and in this case it would be your ex. Trying to get him back only because you don't want to see him with someone else is unfair. He did what you told him to do and he deserves to be happy. His relationship could very well be a rebound thing, but if you truly do not want to be with him then that is none of your business. Be a friend to him and support him or cut contact with him and move on. You can't have it both ways.

So kkmom, put this new girl out of the picture. How do you feel about your ex-fiance? What has changed between you and him that makes you think it will work this time? Do you think he can be the support system you need? Do you feel that you are truly better off being with him? Think long and hard about these things before you make a move.

I know you are in a tough position hon. It is never easy to see an ex move on, especially with someone who seems a little "quick to fall in love", but it does happen. Please be sure that you really want him before you talk to him. Don't ruin his trying to move on and be happy if you are just going to break up with him again in 6 months. Make sure you are being fair to the both of you.

Good luck with whatever you decide to do. Keep us posted on what happens.

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