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Hi Rainbow,

Since I'm jumping in pretty late and there are tons of replies I just kinda skimmed through. I appologize if I'm repeating anything.

I can completely understand how blindsided you must feel. A woman who would keep something like that a secret is something that I'm not allowed to say on this board. But that is exactly what I feel about my neice's mother. About 6 years ago my brother got a call from his ex-girlfriend (who slept with my other brother, his friends, you name it!) saying that her 2 year old daughter may be his! The ONLY reason she called was because she cheated on her husband with her current boyfriend and he demanded a paternity test. My brother was one of 3 possible guys, but she contacted him first because she looked so much like him!

Anyhow, I've never been in shoes, but I'v been pretty close to that situation and there are just so many things you want to say to a tramp like that.

With that being said, there is no excuse for your boyfriend to be treating you this way. I understand he has a lot going on, but he should be leaning on you for support and not that thing.

I think you really need to talk to him. If he keeps being rude to you and calling you a hypocrite then maybe it's time to just take a break for a couple of days until he gets the results back. Once he has a definate answer then he can at least figure out where to go from there. He has a lot on his plate. His whole world just came to a hault too. Unfortunately, he can't see past himself to see what this is doing to you.

Once this comes to a conclusion you need to put your foot down about his time with the ex. Yes, if the child is his he will be bound to her. But picking the tramp up over you and treating her in a higher regard than you is just unacceptable!

Anyway, that's just my take on it. I'm sure I missed something just skimming through.

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