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Well, I finally got the cell phone statement e-mailed to me, and I am definately glad that Jim is OOT tonight. I have been going over it for 2 hours now. And I can barely type my hands are shaking so bad. There is 344 minutes of calls to and from Angie in one month. 68 calls all together 36 of them he made to her! and I thought she was the one constantly calling him. These are just the cell phone calls on his personal phone, I have no way of looking at his work cell phone calls and this doesn't include any time that they talked face to face. Out of the entire month only one call was made on a weekend all the rest were made when he is at work. and quite a few of them are made right around 5pm, his normal time to get off work if they are not OOT. there are calls that are as long as 40 minutes, most of them are between 5-15 though. He tells me all the time that he doesn't have time to talk to me while he is at work. when we were first together he used to call me while he was driving to a job, now he doesn't, and I know why, because he's talking to her! I thought it was kinda funny that he used to love the opportunity to talk to me while he was driving before and then he just stopped and started saying that he doesn't like to talk on the phone. We used to talk on the phone all the time. But if he is using 344 minutes on just his personal cell at work I can imagine that he doesn't have time to do much else. And it is certainly interesting that these calls are not going on over the weekends while he's home. But he does usually have to run errands early Sat. mornings and Angies Husband works Sat. mornings and so does her daughter. It also has bothered me for some time that he takes a shower before he mows the lawn. He always needs to go get gas or something first. So he is either meeting her somewhere or calling her on a pay phone, there's no way that they are talking this much on the weekdays and not the weekend too. I am so sick, I just want to pack my s*** and leave right now! We just sold our old SUV for 3500.00 2 days ago and he put the cash in his drawer. I actually went and took it out and contemplated leaving, and when I counted it there is only $3200.00 there. I would like to know where the other 300.00 went! But I don't want to ask him because then he'll know I counted the money. Somebody please tell me what you think. after everything that I have posted is there still a chance that he isn't cheating on me with her? I did also notice that everyone that he knows has their name in his phone, as soon as he gets a # he puts their name in so it shows their name when they call, even the new guy at work as soon as he started, Jim put his name in the phone, but Angies is not in there it is still just her number, after 1 1/2 years of her calling she is the only one that is not personalized. this sounds like guilt to me, he doesn't want his cell to say Angie. Nikki
[QUOTE=nikki92;3263130]Well, I finally got the cell phone statement e-mailed to me, and I am definately glad that Jim is OOT tonight. I have been going over it for 2 hours now. And I can barely type my hands are shaking so bad. There is 344 minutes of calls to and from Angie in one month. 68 calls all together 36 of them he made to her! and I thought she was the one constantly calling him. These are just the cell phone calls on his personal phone, I have no way of looking at his work cell phone calls and this doesn't include any time that they talked face to face. Out of the entire month only one call was made on a weekend all the rest were made when he is at work. and quite a few of them are made right around 5pm, his normal time to get off work if they are not OOT. there are calls that are as long as 40 minutes, most of them are between 5-15 though. He tells me all the time that he doesn't have time to talk to me while he is at work.[/QUOTE]

Ouch! Looks like Jim has been caught redhanded there. If that's his personal phone I couldn't imagine what his work one is like. I think I would be pretty pissed if my husband claimed to have no time to talk to me at work but could call her on his way home or whenever.

[QUOTE=nikki92;3263130]It also has bothered me for some time that he takes a shower before he mows the lawn. He always needs to go get gas or something first. So he is either meeting her somewhere or calling her on a pay phone, there's no way that they are talking this much on the weekdays and not the weekend too. I am so sick, I just want to pack my s*** and leave right now! We just sold our old SUV for 3500.00 2 days ago and he put the cash in his drawer. I actually went and took it out and contemplated leaving, and when I counted it there is only $3200.00 there. I would like to know where the other 300.00 went![/QUOTE]

Oh nikki! I would be feeling the same thing you are hon!

[QUOTE=nikki92;3263130]Somebody please tell me what you think. after everything that I have posted is there still a chance that he isn't cheating on me with her? I did also notice that everyone that he knows has their name in his phone, as soon as he gets a # he puts their name in so it shows their name when they call, even the new guy at work as soon as he started, Jim put his name in the phone, but Angies is not in there it is still just her number, after 1 1/2 years of her calling she is the only one that is not personalized. this sounds like guilt to me, he doesn't want his cell to say Angie.[/QUOTE]

Honestly, something isn't adding up. The way Jim and Angie acted when you went out of town was just not right. She seemed to be going out of her way to rub whatever it is she has with Jim in your face. I'm sure she knows exactly how you feel and is doing her best to make you feel threatened by her. The worst part, Jim is sitting back and allowing her to act that way. There is just no excuse for his behavior in the vehicle. He could have turned down the cd to talk to you. He could have found a way to include you in the conversation. He could have walked out of the home he was locking up while she looked at "trim colors" instead of hanging in there for 10 minutes doing God knows what. And coming home right behind Angie looking clean? That would have my radar going.

Something isn't adding up Nikki! I was all for giving Jim the benefit of the doubt until your post about the out of town trip. Something is just [I]REALLY[/I] off here. I wish there were a way for you to know what is going on when he is out of town. I really get a bad feeling there is more to the story. I hope I'm wrong, but he just didn't act like a man who was sorry for an emotional affair. He seems to be more like a man who is still hiding something. Sorry! :(





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