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It's just really hard, because I keep thinking that the way we've been for the past 2 weeks... although it was understandable, we haven't been that close, not as close as we are usually.
And he's been there for her, picking up the pieces if you like.
And it's almost as if I know she's making a mistake, and I think she knows she's rushed into what she's doing now.[/QUOTE]

Don't make excuses for her Matthew. All relationships have their ups and downs. It's how you handle the downs that make or break your relationship. Instead of leaning on you, her boyfriend of over a year and half, she chose to seek comfort in another guys arms. That's a load of crap in my opinion. Not to mention, it shows you the kind of person she is. When the going gets tough she heads in the other direction to see what else is out there that she could be missing. Trust me, this is not the kind of girl you want to be with.

[QUOTE=Matthew2106;3282483]I'm afraid if I totally ignore her, we'll just drift apart and stuff.[/QUOTE]

But that's not your fault. She chose to explore with this other guy. She shouldn't be expecting you to sit around and wait for her, and if she is then that makes her a horrificly selfish person and you shouldn't want to be with her anyway.

[QUOTE=Matthew2106;3282483]Just knowing she's sleeping with him tonight makes me question what's going on inside of her head,

I could give you some ideas as to what is going on in her head, but I'm fairly certain you don't want to hear them. One thing is for sure, you are not one of her thoughts. If you were she wouldn't be sleeping with him tonight.

[QUOTE=Matthew2106;3282483]Do you think this guy's just a rebound for her because we haven't been ourselves, but he's always been around?
And would it be a REALLY bad move to actually see her in person this weekend and just explain to her exactly how I feel?[/QUOTE]

I don't know what you want to call this guy. I venture to call him a jerk because he is taking advantage of this rough patch in your relationship to get with her and she is falling for it. That is sad and even if she does come back to you it will be something that will be very hard to get past, especially if she insists on keeping him as a friend. Honestly, I think it's a bad idea to go see her. She knows how you feel and she has shown that she really doesn't care. Why would you risk being hurt more by being rejected to your face, or worse, seeing them together?

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