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[QUOTE=eric24;3296964]Like i mentioned in the other post, the day she calls because i know she will about being friends is the day i say im done, and i mentioned the reasons just before this post, trust me i dont want to be her friend, i truly dont, id love to see her happy, its been 4 weeks since i last heard from her, its apparent she can live with out me, So why be friends, you dont need me in your life if you made it this long, but living Ma and her Wv. its makes things easier, i cant bump into those chances, I was thinking the same thing, i dont think she would randomly call and say ''hey'' how are you hope things are going well, oh ya i have a boyfriend, because see i couldnt do the same thing, She might do that but im not so sure, and your right the feelings will never be the same, So just move on, and cross that bridge when i get there, THE POOR GIRL needs support, and thats what hurts the most, really, but i cant handle and worry about that either. But for her to tell people she wants to be my friends? Why? maybe she still cares and wants me in her life, for what ever reason, or else she would never want to be my friend, i think she is letting everything cool off right now, but who knows, it has to be tough on her this break up too, but oh well thanks soo much![/QUOTE]

ERIC!!!! You cant wait for her to call you to say "Can we be friends" to be done. It is done NOW. She hasnt called you in a month! Take it for what it is. She may have said she wants to be your friend one day to so and so...but if she really wanted that she would say it to you.

Stop obsessing! If she wants you in her life, she will call, and she HASNT!

Stop worrying about if this is tough on her...she is not a concern of yours anymore. It is one thing to still feel sad...it is another to sit there and question every little thing you hear from others. The only truth will come from her...not what she tells other people that gets back to you. Tell your friends or family...whoever...that you really dont care to hear what she is doing or thinking. She is moving on. If she wasnt, she would be contacting you. The relationship is over. Stop thinking about if she comes back or calls.

I told my brothers and friends...I dont want to hear about my ex or what he says or does. It is not worth it to stress myself out. I know he still loves me and misses me...but I dont care anymore. If we wanted to be together we would be.

Maybe she will realize she screwed up...maybe not....DOESNT MATTER ANYMORE! Move on, heal, focus on YOU, stop asking why or what if or when, and get yourself healthy enough to find someone who actually wants to be with you.

Sorry if that is harsh!!!! I'm not trying to be but really, enough is enough! You are torturing yourself over someone who is moving on like you should be.
[QUOTE=ash519;3296990]ERIC!!!! You cant wait for her to call you to say "Can we be friends" to be done. It is done NOW. She hasnt called you in a month! Take it for what it is. She may have said she wants to be your friend one day to so and so...but if she really wanted that she would say it to you.

Stop obsessing! If she wants you in her life, she will call, and she HASNT!

Stop worrying about if this is tough on her...she is not a concern of yours anymore. It is one thing to still feel sad...it is another to sit there and question every little thing you hear from others. The only truth will come from her...not what she tells other people that gets back to you. Tell your friends or family...whoever...that you really dont care to hear what she is doing or thinking. She is moving on. If she wasnt, she would be contacting you. The relationship is over. Stop thinking about if she comes back or calls.

I told my brothers and friends...I dont want to hear about my ex or what he says or does. It is not worth it to stress myself out. I know he still loves me and misses me...but I dont care anymore. If we wanted to be together we would be.

Maybe she will realize she screwed up...maybe not....DOESNT MATTER ANYMORE! Move on, heal, focus on YOU, stop asking why or what if or when, and get yourself healthy enough to find someone who actually wants to be with you.

Sorry if that is harsh!!!! I'm not trying to be but really, enough is enough! You are torturing yourself over someone who is moving on like you should be.[/QUOTE]

Hey, thanks lol, your alright, no trust me i dont sit and wait around the phone i do my own things, and take it day by day and working on my career and the rest will follow not much i can do, you know she lives far away, and she has to contact me if and when she wants to talk, and thats about it i'll listen but thats it, She is one of those girls, that needs to take serious time to think about things, but i cant get into that, i dont care what goes on, in her life, to be quit honest i wish she would date a guy then i would get my closure, but its apparent i'll never get my closure, SO thats all i can look forward too, i was her first, and she has told me over and over when we did talk after the break up, because we did talk for about 1 month, that she isnt looking and doesnt want anybody right now, we were talking till she realized i busted her sending my personal feelings and im;s to all her friends, and she is a little embarresed id have to say, and a little upset with me for doing what i did, but TOUGH





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