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Re: New outlook
Nov 22, 2007
Hang in there chick. It has been 3 weeks since my ex boyfriend stopped staying with me and almost 2 weeks since he officially moved out. I have not heard or seen him since. Like you, I wonder if I will ever hear from him again; not that he deserves for me to even answer the phone. He was my best friend so a nice "Hope you are doing okay" would be something, but the truth is: Its over. All that has been left to say has been said. I MISS him horribly and the past week like you I have been having those damn dreams. Sleeping is the worst and then I wake up feeling sad and angry. The less good sleep you get the more intense these rollar coaster emotions tend to feel. Its just a bad cycle. I think it is great that you are going out on this date. Its okay you still love your ex. This is just a date; a nice distraction from all these thoughts of your ex and you deserve it. Like you, I am also trying to spend alot of times with my friends, etc. I WILL NOT contact my ex. I deleted his work number out of my phone and I WILL NOT make some appearance where he is staying..(which is with his ex wife:mad:). I take pride that even though I am miserable and sad. Can't sleep..blah blah blah...HE is unaware of how I am doing as well. He has not cared to check on me yet I think of him often knowng that he does not even deserve for me to be wondering if hes okay these days. So he has no idea how I feel either and I like it like that. It gives me dignity. He knows my number. He knows where I live. I am better off without him and like you am trying to get back to that happy place I was at before all this. It is taking time and very hard to do during the holidays. I don't have much advice other than sharing my story so you know you are not alone. Reading your posts sounds like reading my own thoughts. Sometimes it feels as if you are going insane? I guess its all part of the healing process, learning to let Go and holding on tight through the emotional rollar coaster ride. Remember its okay to love him. Its okay to miss him. He was an important part of your life. Someone once told me that "just because you love someone does not mean you are supposed to be with them"...simple but VERY true. Hang in there! Be Strong! And if you get weak think of me over here going through the same thing trying to be as strong as possible! Take care.

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