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Let me ask you ladies this; Is it ok with you if your husbands not only got letters from ex-girlfriends but still remained FRIENDS?


Yes, it absolutely is. I'm freinds with a few ex boyfriends, mind you only the ones that were nice guys and that I felt a friendship with. My partner is still friendly with his ex wife. I also have men friends I hang out with, go see bands with here and there, no big deal. I know I would never cheat on my guy. He is too wonderful. I'm not stupid, I know some people cheat and will get up to no good, I have been cheated on before by others. But I don't think that's not a reason to be insecure or to take that out on my present relationship. I know it's hard to let go of past hurts and to trust, but it's worth it, and really, what other choices is there, always wondering and worrying about things that may or may never happen?
[QUOTE=jennie250;3333769]Let me ask you ladies this; Is it ok with you if your husbands not only got letters from ex-girlfriends but still remained FRIENDS?


Yes, it absolutely is. I'm freinds with a few ex boyfriends, mind you only the ones that were nice guys and that I felt a friendship with. My partner is still friendly with his ex wife. I also have men friends I hang out with, go see bands with here and there, no big deal. I know I would never cheat on my guy. He is too wonderful. I'm not stupid, I know some people cheat and will get up to no good, I have been cheated on before by others. But I don't think that's not a reason to be insecure or to take that out on my present relationship. I know it's hard to let go of past hurts and to trust, but it's worth it, and really, what other choices is there, always wondering and worrying about things that may or may never happen?[/QUOTE]

I wasn't living worried something is going to happen. I want to take the power to irrtate away from my husband's long ago insigificant ex.

If I tried to be friends with an ex, they'd hit on me period. No exceptions. There's no way I could be friends with them. My husband hit on me while we were broke up when I tried to remain freinds with him. lol And look what happened, we got back together!

Life just doesn't work that way. And Layla, I'm still working on getting everything fixed but it's happening!





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