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[FONT="Franklin Gothic Medium"][SIZE="2"]Thanks to both of you for the replies! We aren't planning on moving in together anytime soon. We haven't been together long enough yet that I feel comfortable with that. However, I'm keeping my fingers crossed that he will be moving out as soon as he starts his new job after the first of the year. I know, however, that my boyfriend moving out doesn't mean that she will be out of his life. She will be much more removed from him and I'm sure he won't talk to her much or be visiting often once he starts doing his own thing again and living elsewhere, but she is still his mother. I just want everyone to get along. I would love to spend the holidays with he and his family, but it looks like that's not going to happen. I guess I will just have to accept that fact that she probably isn't going to change her mind about me, at least not any time soon.

When my boyfriend asks her about her feelings toward me, she says she doesn't know how to act around me, that she is unsure what to do or say, and that she gets upset when he and I fight because she doesn't want her little boy getting hurt. I think she feels like I'm moving in on her territory. She has alot of emotional problems anyway and I wonder sometimes if she is bothered by problems totally unrelated to me, but I am a convenient and available target to vent those negative feelings on. Ugh...it's just never-ending.

To Seraph: I understand how you feel, even though the situation is reversed. I honestly think problems like these are just better left alone. Avoid the person if possible and when you are around them, be as nice as possible so you don't give them any cause to REALLY dislike you. Some people just aren't going to be happy no matter what you do, but at least you'll have the peace of mind that it isn't your fault.[/SIZE][/FONT]





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