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I have to agree with jennie250 here. And I too am one of those women who doesn't mind porn.

Your girlfriend is against porn. You enjoy porn. You are not going to convince her to like or tolerate just as she isn't going to get you to stop looking at it. It is not a matter of "respecting your girlfriend" and not looking at it just as it is not an issue of her "respecting you" and dealing with it. This is just one of those things you are going to have to agree to disagree about.

So now you need to figure out what to do. Is your girlfriend's hatred of porn a deal breaker for you? Is your like of porn a deal breaker for her? With something this big I have a feeling it will always be an issue as long as you are together.

Oh, and for the record, the jealousy only gets worse. Bad past relationships is a lame excuse for jealousy. I was married to a man who cheated on me several times and was controlling and abusive. I dealt with that and didn't carry that into my current marriage. It's unfair for anyone to hold what someone else did in the past against their current partner. Anyway, just something to think about.

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