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OK so im a senior in high school and the majorty of my friends are guys...and im talking a 12 to 3 ratio....is this weird?...my mom was the same way when she was younger but then again she was kinda a tomboy.... i just get along better with guys but im not a tomboy or anything...the furthest away from it actually...i dunno maybe its cuz guys cause less drama...no affence to any girls but it is true! lol...but anyways id rather sit and watch the football game then a soap opera...and id rather be outside then inside talking on the phone...im not a big phone talker lol but still i make time to catch up on the latest cosmo and paint my toenails...i guess i just wanna know if its healthy to have more guy friends than girl friends at my age...or does it even matter?
[QUOTE=InsideBeauty;3380635]i just get along better with guys but im not a tomboy or anything...the furthest away from it actually...i dunno maybe its cuz guys cause less drama...no affence to any girls but it is true! lol...[/QUOTE]

This is one reason I had a lot of guy friends. There is a lot of drama with some girls. Some women are just nasty to other women, even ones they call their best friend. I actually preffered going to the dance clubs with my guy friends in my early 20s because I didn't have to deal with all the bs.

Don't get me wrong, I have my "girl" friends too, but I always found it easier to get along with men. I know not all women and caddy (sp?), but a lot of them are. I use to work all women and it is a lot of drama. I would take an office full of men any day!
I'm the same way. Its' not weird.. to me anyway! I have a few really close girlfriends, but more guy friends over all. Same thing here- I just get along better with guys more than most girls.

Girls do cause more drama, they're katty and vindictive. The close females friends I do have I've know for years, basically grew up together and have similar attitudes towards girls vs. guy friendships.

I'm more easily irritated by girls than guys!

As far as "is it healthy".. in terms of stress I'd say its healthier to be friends with men over women!! I don't know about you, but in middle and high school my female friends were always "in a fight" with somene.. always mad at another "friend." Stressful!! Even though boys do their share of gossiping, I dont think they as easily bad mouth their friends as much as some of the girls I know/knew. Girls also play games, like turing your friends agaisnt you if you happen to be mad at one particular girl.. ugh.. just ugh!

Before I go on ramble.. I think it is ok for a girl to have more male friends than female.





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