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He screwed up actually. One night he came home and thought I was sleeping when he came in the bedroom. I saw him reach into his pocket and pull out a piece of paper. I watched him put that paper into his underwear drawer. When I got up in the morning he was still out cold. I went very quietly into the drawer and pulled out a piece of paper with a girls name and phone number. I then took his cell phone and called the number. It turns out he was with her and her friend last night. She was told that we were no longer together. :rolleyes: His excuse: She was an ex that just couldn't get over him. He took the number so she wouldn't be insulted.

After that I came home early to find him coming out of the aparment downstairs. The neighbor later told me (out of guilt because she cheated on her boyfriend who was in jail!) that they had been sleeping together for months. His excuse: She was always hot for him and making excuses to have him come fix things (keep in mind he couldn't fix anything, I always did it) and he kept turning down her advances.

The final straw, however, was when one of his friends who was an usher in our wedding called me and told me not only about those two I knew, but a number of other one night stands and other short term flings he had. He said he just couldn't sit by while I was home raising his daughter and being treated that way. Needless to say they are no longer friends but I am very grateful that he came to me like that. He did the same for his other friend's wife (he was the best man in our wedding) but she chose to believe her husband which is pretty sad because the night I met him he was dating her but was out with another woman. His excuse: His friend was jealous of him and was hoping to get in my pants. Btw, he never once tried to make a move on me and I haven't spoken to him since that phone call.

Yes, it did take me over a year to do it. I had a young daughter and I was very affraid of being a single mother. One day I just couldn't take it anymore (between the cheating and the abuse) and I had him removed. There are so many regrets I have when it comes to him, but everything that happened made me the person I am today.

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