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You said in your original post that he fell "in love" with you rather quickly, much in the same way he fell "in love" with this new girl. I don't think he is actually falling in love with the person, more of the idea of being in a relationship and feeling secure in that sense. I'm not saying he didn't love you because I can't say that for sure. But people who fall in love and want to move in so quickly are usually very insecure and feel the need to move things quickly along even if they are not in the financial position to do so. He strikes me as a guy who needs to be taken care of because he can't do that for himself and he will find a person to do that even if he hurts others along the way.

I know it doesn't seem like it now, but you are so much better off. You are trying to better yourself and your future while he is sitting stagnant either in deadend part time jobs or unemployed. Being with him will always be a financial struggle and who needs that stress added to the typical relationship stress? It's just not worth it. Love isn't enough. You need to be with someone you are compatible with and he just isn't it.

Continue with school and taking care of you. There are plenty of men out there who will love you for you and drive to be successful. Don't sell yourself short with men like him. You deserve far better than that.





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