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uhh first of all, was he joking? if not clearly hes not as nice as you described him. Also i think you need to break it off with your boyfriend - your wasting your time and his, clearly your not that interested in him if after 8 months "its not that serious", I dont mean to come off rude but im just speaking my opinion. Back to the guy just because a guy is attractive does not mean hes going to be a good partner - I think that you need to maybe stop focusing so much on guys before life passes you by.
[QUOTE=OpenMind;3468202]uhh first of all, was he joking? if not clearly hes not as nice as you described him. Also i think you need to break it off with your boyfriend - your wasting your time and his, clearly your not that interested in him if after 8 months "its not that serious", I dont mean to come off rude but im just speaking my opinion. Back to the guy just because a guy is attractive does not mean hes going to be a good partner - I think that you need to maybe stop focusing so much on guys before life passes you by.[/QUOTE]

Ok, I really appreciate your opinion. It's just that I'm in college. I'm working part-time and working on a career, so I don't see how life would pass me by. I have this situation with my boyfriend smothering me, and not wanting to let me do all the things I want to do. Yes they are both nice looking. So I guess, my point is....they're about equal in looks.

I had a lot of respect for this guy, M. He seemed so grown up and nice, and I like him as a friend also. But I guess not now. I was wondering why he would do this. This is about something that happened to me in class. This isn't me focusing on guys. This guy is hanging out with my roomate, he's talking to my bf, he's in my class, he's around me, I'm not chasing him. It's not anything I did, as I said, I've never commented back when he said I looked nice.

I was hoping some people here could tell me. Why would this guy act like this to me? It's a small close nit environment at my school, so I don't understand it at all.
Sorry i responded kind of rudely in the first post, but i think the reason your not getting much sympathy is because you came off wrong to me in the first place, If your in a relationship BE in a relationship and if your not interested in one dont waste that persons time. This guy probably does like you to some extent, but if you want to pursue that with him (god knows why) then both of you have to let go of your partners, which sometimes men or women mutually lie about. Theres always the case of the missing ex when theres still attachment issues to them. So in short - Be careful, Think about what your doing, and dont regret the decisions you choose - learn from them
I would not go out with another guy while dating my bf. But I have to tell you, I get tired of hearing how rich his ex girlfriend was/is. I get tired of hearing about them all the time.

He acts like he likes me a lot, but he quit college last semester, and he doesn't want me to hang out with my friends. He's doing this. He could be going to the same school I am. He could be letting me have my freedom and everything would be great. If I want to leave him, it's because of him, and his behavior. But like I said, I do care a lot about him. I want him to be happy, but I like me more. I see a rocky road ahead with him. I would not start dating another guy, without first breaking it off. I'm not that way.

I like this guy M, but if it wasn't M, it would be someone else. I'm not the type of person to want someone else just because someone better came along. I wouldn't try and mess up M's relationship either, that's why he would have to make the first move, but maybe he doesn't want to mess up my relationship and mine is already on it's way out.

So I was wondering, does M have a crush on me, or is he mean? Why is he so interested in what I'm doing? Does he have a serious crush on me, or not?

Or is he just a friend, and a friend would mess with me like that? What about his comments that I look nice, and look like I work out a lot? Why is he hanging out with my roomate? Can someone tell me now that I've clarified that I would NEVER date another guy, not even one date without breaking it off with my bf first.





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