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me and my boyfriend have been dating for two months and we are running out of things to talk about. what are some good topics?
Well, after two months, I don't think it's a matter of finding topics but rather a matter of general compatibility. My ex and I were together for 2 years and we never ran out of things to talk about. My brother, though not a romantic interest of course, is one of my best friends, and we never run out of things to talk about either, because we get along. We talk about whatever's on our minds, whatever's going on in our lives, our views, our philosophies, whatever. When you have true emotional intimacy and compatibility with someone, you don't have to struggle to find things to talk about. It just comes naturally.
[QUOTE=Larrylou'smom;3490773]When you have true emotional intimacy and compatibility with someone, you don't have to struggle to find things to talk about. It just comes naturally.[/QUOTE]

Very well put Larrylou'smom. When you really "connect" with someone the coversation comes easily. I can understand shyness or something in the beginning of dating that keeps you from talking a bit, but that's a bit different from running out of things to talk about after only 2 months of dating. This could be a sign that the two of you really are not that compatible.
I think it has everything to do with compatibility. My mother always told me to marry someone whom you have something in common with. Although it is fine to have your own separate lives, you also need to have something you enjoy doing together. For my husband and I, it was always traveling. Now that we have a son we don't travel as much, but we still enjoy walking and getting outside. We also enjoy doing home improvements. Our newest venture is our powder room, which is getting a makeover right now.
Larrylou'smom pretty much summed it up. It should never be a strain to have a conversation with your partner to the point that you have to come on a board to search for potential conversation topics. Do you feel that you guys are compatible?

With the girl I'm seeing, we can talk about the most random things for hours. I don't even really think about what's coming out of my mouth 90% of the time, it's just the fact that we're compatible enough to where the conversation will keep flowing naturally. In my opinion, when you find the person that's right for you it's not the conversation that's hugely important, it's being comfortable with saying nothing sometimes.





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