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I've posted here before so I will give you the short of it since you all know what it is like to live with someone who suffers from this...

THE ANSWERS I AM LOOKING TO GET ARE WHAT ARE THE LONG TERM EFFECTS IT HAS ON ME... OR IF ANY OF YOU WHO DEAL WITH PEOPLE LIKE THIS ON A DAILY BASIS IN A RELATIONSHIP...

I have been with him for about a year and 3 months and yes we have lived together for one year and 3 months that shouldn't be a surprise to any of you because ya meet them and the next thing you know they are attached to your hip... One day single the next he seems to be moved in...

I KNOW I should have gotten out of way back when I figured out the problem only about 2-3 month into it... But like a fool I really thought I could help and change him... Show him what like can be like as a happy person show him that he can be loved and that love is real.... But the constant verbal abuse has never gone away and I'm too the point where I just feel like things will never change...

He was kicked out of the military for smoking weed (self medacating) he called it... And too be honest I didn't even have a problem with it beause at least when he was high he was tolerable...

He has done and said some of the meanest things... YOU ASK WHY I STAY... the answer is I don't really know... I don't have a low self esteem I am a very good looking woman WHO WAS FULL OF LIfe.... now I am just drained....

I FEEL AS IF HE HAS SUCKED THE LIFE RIGHT OUT OF ME... for the past 4 months I am mostly sick everyday now. nausia, fatigue, diaria and the list goes one.... But he is so sick of me being sick that I can't even mention it to him....................... HE TELLS ME IT'S ALL IN MY HEAD.... I went to the doc because I though I might be pregnet... no they did bloodwork, I had about 5 abnormalities but the 'walk in clinic' doctor perscribed me Zoloft for depression...... But I do not feel like a depressed person....

IS HE MAKING ME CRAZY BECAUSE I SPEND EVERY WAKING SECOND WITH HIM.........

Before I could control myself, I'm not an angry person... I don't like to fight and I don't start fights but I feel like he loves to fight and he loves to get a rize out of me and will say so many things that are not true just to see me get just as pissed off as he is....

Now I find I am uncontroable when he starts in.... I break things, I throw things... he has gotten me so riled up I have even punched myself in the head.................. this has all started over the past month that I have been feeling out of control but it is only when he is laying in with the verbal abuse.... when I feel the rage coming on i have to leave the situtation or I would freeking loose it.............

I want to know if anyone else is out there for me to talk too...

I know you will all just say leave him... but it's so hard when one minute they are the perfect person but the next a monster......

kICKED OUT OF THE MILITARY.... WAS OUT IN JAN---- NO JOB NO JOB... NO MONEY..... GOT A GOB FOR A WEEK AND GOT FIRED....NOT UNEMPLOYED AGAIN... SO IT'S GOING ON 4 MONTHS OF UNEMPLOYMENT....... AND HE DOES NOT GET AN UNEMPLOYMENT CHECK BECAUSE HE WAS KICKED OUT.... LOST ALL HIS BENIFITS FROM THE MILITARY......

now he just sits at home and says he sends out resumes... does not cook does not clean doesn't do a god damn thing but lay of the couch.... But I am too scared to say anything to him like do something because he will just blow up at me...

so unhealthy... if someone else way saying this to me I'd say you are nuts for staying............

I KNOW IT'S NOT NORMAL BEHAVIOR, I KNOW THAT I DESERVE TO BE TREATED BETTER... I GUESS WHAT I DON'T KNOW IS WHY I STAY... HE EVEN GETS MAD AT ME FOR BEING SICK... LIKE I LOVE BEING SO SICK TO MY STOMACH...BUT WHEN I AM HE IS JUST MEAN AND STARTS A FIGHT... and let me tell you how that is when you feel like you are going to throw up already... then he adds more stress...

:(

SICK OF LOVE
LOVESICK





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