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Hello 2 days ago my boyfriend, ex-boyfriend cut off contact with completely. He just broke up with about a week ago. And it all seems so hard to believe . He just spent the holidays with me and my family and told me 4 days ago when he told me he doesn't want to get back together so many mean things. I am completely dumbfounded actually.

Okay here's the situation in a nutshell: We have been dating 19 months, are in a long distance relationship. He told me 3 weeks ago on my voicemail- it is still on my phone that he loved me so much and that he would always be there for me no matter what. Then his Grandmother died, I don't know how close he was to her because he grew up in another state then she lived and he also has a large family .
When she became sick about 4 or 5 weeks ago, he said he needed space, so I gave him space and he said that he was thinking about breaking up with me but wanted to just try seperating first. Then 2 weeks ago he calls me and says that he realizes that he didn't miss me as much as he thought he would and that it wasn't that hard living without me. But that he still loves me. ???

I am so confused! Then I called him Saturday and I have been really, really depressed , but I pretended to be in good spirits when I called him. He answered and said 'what do you want?' very rudely, then I talked as nicely and sweetly as I could and we proceeded to talk about nothing for 2 hours.

I thought I had him back so I waited and waited for him to call me and 3 days later I finally called him again- I was upset about something. And we had a very emotional conversation for over an hour. And 3 days ago he sent me an email saying he was sorry but he was cutting off all contact from me.

He changed his phone number, I don't have his new address because he moved 3 months ago and didn't want to give me his new address which was the first sign to me that something was wrong, and he blocked me from email contact :(

I am heartbroken, but mostly just really really lost I don't know why all this happened. Did he meet somebody new?

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