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I think you have to be happy with yourself before you can expect a girl to be happy with you. Almost every woman has a past and that is something you are going to have to accept. Nobody likes to hear all the details about their SOs past, but there are going to be times when you run into an ex or she has a strictly platonic male friend. If you are jealous about that then that is your thing to work on, not hers to change, you know what I mean?

You are just going to have to find a way to get over it, whether it be through your own thoughts or with the help of talking to someone else. I highly doubt you will be able to find a girl who doesn't have any friends, any past boyfriends, or even some male friends. If she doesn't give you a reason to be jealous then you are going to have to learn how to trust and give the benefit of the doubt. It's hard, but with a real effort you can overcome it.

Believe me, I have had HUGE jealousy issues in the past. The right person won't make you feel that way no matter what the circumstances. I mean, my husband is really good friends with on of his exes. The thing is, I'm secure enough now in myself and in my marriage that things like this don't get to me anymore. You can get there too! :angel:

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