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they have never been out alone... we are a group of friends...he has been friends with her longer than i have known him. he didnt go because i was upset about it...he told her he had to work that day because i didnt want him to tell her i was worried because i just wanted to keep the peace between me and her seeing as we need to share a room together in two weeks time. she is coming on holiday because there are 5 of us going (2 other guys).
the reason i posted was because i am not the jealous girlfriend, i dont worry about him looking at girls, because we have a laugh about it and both look and then say things like "wow shes pretty" or "her boobs are huge" just to laugh about it...and i dont mind...and he does the same to me with guys... thats why i wanted to know how to get rid of this feeling because i honestly believe he wouldnt cheat...he tells me on many ocassions that he cant believe he has me...and when he realised why i was actually so upset about he he felt awful and actually almost cried...so he said sorry so many times and then bought me flowers...
I am over the whole asking her to go out for coffee thing because i dont think he thought it would hurt me...and when he realised it did...he didnt go...didnt even think about going...so i dont think there is anything suspisious there...i just dont want to feel jealous when i am with this girl on holiday because she is so perfect...so toned and pretty...*sighs*
[QUOTE=Emma17;3595718]they have never been out alone... we are a group of friends...he has been friends with her longer than i have known him. he didnt go because i was upset about it...he told her he had to work that day because i didnt want him to tell her i was worried because i just wanted to keep the peace between me and her seeing as we need to share a room together in two weeks time. she is coming on holiday because there are 5 of us going (2 other guys).
the reason i posted was because i am not the jealous girlfriend, i dont worry about him looking at girls, because we have a laugh about it and both look and then say things like "wow shes pretty" or "her boobs are huge" just to laugh about it...and i dont mind...and he does the same to me with guys... thats why i wanted to know how to get rid of this feeling because i honestly believe he wouldnt cheat...he tells me on many ocassions that he cant believe he has me...and when he realised why i was actually so upset about he he felt awful and actually almost cried...so he said sorry so many times and then bought me flowers...
I am over the whole asking her to go out for coffee thing because i dont think he thought it would hurt me...and when he realised it did...he didnt go...didnt even think about going...so i dont think there is anything suspisious there...i just dont want to feel jealous when i am with this girl on holiday because she is so perfect...so toned and pretty...*sighs*[/QUOTE]

I think if your BF values your relationship he will cool his relationship with this woman--particular this vacation thing. I would not go. Stop beating yourself up. You aren't comfortable and that is THE ONLY REASON YOU NEED to not want to have to be dealing with her or her and him more than absolutely necessary, if at all. If he doesn't respect your feelings simply because they don't make sense to him--he ain't much of a guy, in my opinion. You don't need a reason. This is hurting your relationship WITH HIM. With this in mind, find out who is more important: HER or YOU!





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