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I dated someone for a few months. I thought he was a prince, yes I did.

We were friends for months before...however, long story short. We don't see each other any more.

he told me many things...which turned out to be not what happened. Whta I think happened was that he met someone else and didn't know how to dump me so he just disappeared. However, from time to time we see each other just hello, how are you, etc. He told me we would be friends, we would talk, etc. never did a thing. he never even checked on me to say, hey, I haven't seen you in months are you ok. Happy holiday, happy b'day, nothing. He told me when I stated to date him that he would if he were out on a date, leave someone in a restaurant..throw them money to get home, etc. if he didn't want to be there. Red flag, I know. He really was sweet and always a gentleman to me...until his exit...just poof, gone.

My question is why in the world would he go to where my mom lives after a medical procedure, ring her bell and ask how she made out. My mom had seen him and told him what was going on a day or 2 prior to her "procedure". He knows how close i am to her........it could have been me who answered the door???? Why or how can he do this? I thought he was trying to prove to my mom "see, I really am I a nice guy" it is your daughter. Or,...maybe he really like my mom. I could never have done that....I could see if he bumped into her in the street and said..hi how did you do, etc. But to go to her door? Whta the heck is that? And, no he is not interested in me....he is history... and I think he dumped me for someone else or someone from his past.

Just asking for a few comments on how and why he could do this? I certainly would not be able to do this. I never really met his family. He kept me in the dark I think. LOL! Hindsight they say is 20/20.

My mom said he is calculated. I said no, he is such a nice guy. She told me to take him off that pedastal. I told her he never came across like that. He, however, just disappeared, poof. Immature, yes. Jerk, maybe. I don't know why he would do and say things..I think the world of you, I will always be yoru friend. When we are comfortable with this situation I will cime by and we will hang out, etc. C'm,on...he lied right to my face. Never looked for me once...but carries on conversations and sweet talks my mom if he sees her?
Then goes to her home and puts his finger on the bell. He said he would check on her...and he did. What a guy eh?

LOL.

Why is my question.
[QUOTE=dma11663;3592321]I dated someone for a few months. I thought he was a prince, yes I did.

We were friends for months before...however, long story short. We don't see each other any more.

he told me many things...which turned out to be not what happened. Whta I think happened was that he met someone else and didn't know how to dump me so he just disappeared. However, from time to time we see each other just hello, how are you, etc. He told me we would be friends, we would talk, etc. never did a thing. he never even checked on me to say, hey, I haven't seen you in months are you ok. Happy holiday, happy b'day, nothing. He told me when I stated to date him that he would if he were out on a date, leave someone in a restaurant..throw them money to get home, etc. if he didn't want to be there. Red flag, I know. He really was sweet and always a gentleman to me...until his exit...just poof, gone.

My question is why in the world would he go to where my mom lives after a medical procedure, ring her bell and ask how she made out. My mom had seen him and told him what was going on a day or 2 prior to her "procedure". He knows how close i am to her........it could have been me who answered the door???? Why or how can he do this? I thought he was trying to prove to my mom "see, I really am I a nice guy" it is your daughter. Or,...maybe he really like my mom. I could never have done that....I could see if he bumped into her in the street and said..hi how did you do, etc. But to go to her door? Whta the heck is that? And, no he is not interested in me....he is history... and I think he dumped me for someone else or someone from his past.

Just asking for a few comments on how and why he could do this? I certainly would not be able to do this. I never really met his family. He kept me in the dark I think. LOL! Hindsight they say is 20/20.

My mom said he is calculated. I said no, he is such a nice guy. She told me to take him off that pedastal. I told her he never came across like that. He, however, just disappeared, poof. Immature, yes. Jerk, maybe. I don't know why he would do and say things..I think the world of you, I will always be yoru friend. When we are comfortable with this situation I will cime by and we will hang out, etc. C'm,on...he lied right to my face. Never looked for me once...but carries on conversations and sweet talks my mom if he sees her?
Then goes to her home and puts his finger on the bell. He said he would check on her...and he did. What a guy eh?

LOL.

Why is my question.[/QUOTE]

The guy is rude, he doesn't care about leaving someone on a date if "he isn't having a good time" (selfish as all get out!), and from what you indicate he is a liar! You seem to be trying to figure out if he is still interested in you. If he is, I would run for the hills!!!
LOL....

I hope not cuz he had his chance and its done. I just wonder if he is a

wolf in sheeps clothing? I can't believe I could have misjudged someone like that. He is not interested in me, I know that for a fact.

How do you know he is selfish? I never saw that...I think what i am trying to do is read him and see if I was really wrong about him.

I mean, what I told my mom is that if you let him into your home you are being disloyal to your daughter. My mom said ..trust me, he is a calculated coniver (sorry if the sp. is off). I think if someone hurts your children you want to kill them...I thought he was trying to prove to my mom that he is nice........and a good guy. Could that be it?

I don't really have anything to do with him...hello and goodbye.





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