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I want to say maybe a month ago my girlfriend (19) wanted to break up with me (21) after 6 months because I asked her to go down on me after she said no a couple other times (over the course of a few weeks). [COLOR="Red"]{removed} [/COLOR]Well, she ended up forgiving me, and to be honest since then things have been getting better and better every day. Right now I would say were at a high point in our relationship since we met.

We started to actually communicate with each other, with a little coaxing by her sister. We got all our problems out on the table and straightened them all out...or so I thought.

This could get very long, so I'll try to shorten it as much as possible.

She goes to a different school than me which ran about a month longer than mine did, while she was in school she didn't have a whole lot of time for me because of studying and stuff. And lives with her parents, which still kinda keep a short leash on her for someone her age. But I suppose they have a right to since she does live at home. Now my problem lies in the amount of time I get to spend with her, and another woman.

One of our problems that we talked out was the amount of time we get to spend together, its not very much. When I do see her I never get to spend the entire day with her. Literally every date i've been on with her has either went like "go to eat, go home" or "go see a movie, then go home". Partly because of her parents and partly because of her school work she's never spent the whole day with me. I told her I want to spend more than a couple hours at a time with her, but all she ever seems to say is "well see" or "maybe" or "I don't think my parents would let me do that". Sometimes I just wish she would lie to her parents (I'm not asking her to) or something just so I can spend more than 2 hours with her. And now that schools out for both of us, nothing seems to be changing. Tomorrow I'm going to see her from 12-3 before I have to leave for work. I'd like to take her downtown, but all she wants to do is see a movie because she feels like she'd be lying to her parents if she did.

Now this second problem crosses with the first. A girl we both worked with comes down every summer to stay at home while schools out. Me and her became friends, but my girlfriend doesn't like her because someone told her that this other girl was just after me in order to spite my girlfriend. I have no idea how true this is, and as far as I can tell its false. I haven't sensed that this other girl is after me. Since my girlfriend can't do things with me at the spur of the moment and never for more than a few hours at a time, I do end up wanting to hang out with this other girl as a friend only. I don't have very many friends where I live. Literally theres my girlfriend, and another guy I work with. Those are my only two friends, but both of them live about a half hour drive away, so when I have free time I can't exactly just get up and go all the way out there to see them. This other girl lives right down the street. I'm getting really lonely sometimes, and I feel like I should be able to hang out with this girl just as a friend. I feel like its unfair to me that I have to sit at home because my girlfriend can't do anything when I have free time.

I really don't know what to do. I can't sit at home and wait for my girlfriend all the time. I feel like I should be able to make a new friend especially if they live so close. But my girlfriend doesn't like the idea of me hanging out with this other girl even though she hangs out with her guy friends all the time (which i'm completely comfortable with. I trust her). She told me she was going to let me make my own decision about it even though she wouldn't be comfortable if I were to see this other girl, and she does feel bad that I can't openly make a new friend. I don't know what to do, I'm tired of sitting in the house all day when my girlfriend can't do anything.

I'm sorry if this seemed like I didn't quite explain everything clearly about whats going on. Its really late here and I'm tired, but I needed to write this to get it off my chest.





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