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Pendulum - thank you....your version sounds nice.....I'm not sure about the disappearing off the face of the earth part.....doesn't that sound a little cocky/sarcastic? Also the part of all good things coming to an end.....I'd rather leave that part out. I know I'm an idiot, but I don't want to put that in words, hoping that maybe it won't be an end....just a temporary detour. I do like a lot of it, and if I do send a letter I'll use most of it, and the spirit of it also.

I talked to my friend Ron on Friday and he asked how's it going with you and Lou, and I said I don't think it's goin....I haven't heard from him in a week and he won't return my calls. I think he's done. Ron said....oh no, not Lou. So he said he asked Lou last week if he's seeing me still and Lou said yeah a little, but it's hard to keep a girlfriend with my hectic life. Ron said it sounded like Lou was hinting that I was going to dump him.....I said WHAT? I think he's already dumped me....Ron said, no not Lou, he hangs on.....look at how long he hung onto that no-good wife.....he hangs on, you just don't know he's hanging on....LOL then we laughed. He told me a story that when Lou was getting back in the band in March they said yeah they wanted him and he was supposed to call the next day because they had a gig the following Saturday. He was deciding to come back in the band, so Ron called him every day that week, even called his son to make sure he was getting the messages, no return phone call, nothing.....so Fri Lou calls up and says are we still on for tomorrow? and Ron said I didn't even think you wanted to be in the band, and Lou said yeah, I'm in....so Rons point was it's probably not over.....I told Ron I wanted to give him the tapes, DVD's and a letter and he said the letter's not a good idea, we're not that deep into a relationship yet, and I said yes I know, it's not about a relationship, it's about common courtesy.....he said "you're never gonna get that with Lou"
so I think the letter is on hold for now, but if I do send it in the future, it will be along the lines of yours Pendulum

lemondrop I know what you mean, just an explanation would be nice......


pendulum I know women do it too, my male friends are just as surprised when it happens to them without warning....

Kszan -you hit the nail on the head about the number of dysfunctional people out there in the dating pool these days.....I hear ya girl....loud and clear! And yeah you can believe it's all the other people and not you (or me), but these people keep finding their way to me......why doesn't a normal one find his way to me? It makes me wonder about ME!!!!

Skittley - nope didn't hear from him......
I was busy doing stuff with friends, and around the house.......I would have made time for him, of course, but no call, nothing.....
oh well.......





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