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[QUOTE=happymom28;3628103]Hi VeryChic,

There are some positives to your story I want you to really take a notice of. Your boyfriend is honest about all of this with you. That is HUGE! This board is full of dishonesty when it comes to men and female friends. Also, he wanted you to meet them, hang out with them, and be a part of what he is doing. That shows me that you have a decent guy right there. He's allowed to have friends of the opposite sex and he is being respectful of you in the process.

Now, you said that your reaction is pretty recent and just about this one girl. I'm going to ask a few questions which you don't have to answer here, but I want you to at least answer for yourself.
~Is this girl single or in a relationship?
~How did she act towards you when you met her?
~Did she say anything just rubbed you the wrong way?
~How does your boyfriend interact with her compared to the other girls?

I agree that you should talk to your boyfriend about how you are feeling. Obviously forbidding him from hanging out with someone isn't a good idea since I'm sure you wouldn't like it if he did it to you. But maybe it would help you to go with him when he sees them until this feeling passes.[/QUOTE]


Ok a few things which i did not include.. he does see a future with us..he basically thinks of us as a done deal..and other then this we have a good relationship..Basically this group of girls had a few guys too and the boyfriend was very excited that he was bonding with them as he is a very social person... I didnt care as these girls had boyfriends.. eventually, they broke up with their boyfriends and the bfs drifted from the group so now its mainly girls with an occasional date. Hes told me he gets along with them all really well..and was very proud at how understanding i was at the start of it all..he'd always invite me to go.. and im always more then welcomed..but its at a club and its really not my thing.

[B]Now, you said that your reaction is pretty recent and just about this one girl. I'm going to ask a few questions which you don't have to answer here, but I want you to at least answer for yourself.
~Is this girl single or in a relationship?
~How did she act towards you when you met her?
~Did she say anything just rubbed you the wrong way?
~How does your boyfriend interact with her compared to the other girls?[/B]

This girl is single but wasnt when they first all hung out..basically he goes there because a lot of people he knows go there..and he just happens to bump into all of them there and spends a lot of time with them while there..so its not really one on one with one girl.
She was very friendly when she met me.. infact I am jealous of how bubbley and friendly she is with everyone..I tend to be a bit shy when i meet people.
She didnt say anything.. and i didnt notice that my boyfriend interacts any different while talking to her compared to other girls.. but he kept mentioning "just wait till you meet her".. "shes so fun"...and it drove me MAD! Once we were out and this woman was walking towards us with a guy and he thought it was her and was like "hah i thought that was "T".. she looks and acts like her".
Just thinking about all these little comments is frustrating me.:mad:





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