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Lazer, this is classic game playing for her. She ALWAYS plays games with your mind. From talking about her past relationships, to being controlling with you. She has turned you into a very insecure (more than you have ever been) person. How sad. I can't believe the two of you are working together. Why? So you can keep tabs on one another? She could get a job anywhere in this economy.

But back to the games, don't you see it by now? I wouldn't trust her at all. She cheated on her ex to be with you. She [I]will[/I] cheat on you to be with her manager. She likes attention and seeks to get it from every guy she can get. Talk about low self esteem!

I hope you are being honest when you said you broke up with her. I am sure you will be back together in a day b/c your relationship is so co-dependent. Just trust your gut Lazer, I have told you many times you are smart and to use your head.
[QUOTE=KeltoKel;3634940]Lazer, this is classic game playing for her. She ALWAYS plays games with your mind. From talking about her past relationships, to being controlling with you. She has turned you into a very insecure (more than you have ever been) person. How sad. I can't believe the two of you are working together. Why? So you can keep tabs on one another? She could get a job anywhere in this economy.

But back to the games, don't you see it by now? I wouldn't trust her at all. She cheated on her ex to be with you. She [I]will[/I] cheat on you to be with her manager. She likes attention and seeks to get it from every guy she can get. Talk about low self esteem!

I hope you are being honest when you said you broke up with her. I am sure you will be back together in a day b/c your relationship is so co-dependent. Just trust your gut Lazer, I have told you many times you are smart and to use your head.[/QUOTE]

I know she has played games with my head in the past, and i believe this whole situation is another game, but the games have surely cut down by a lot.

She keeps asking for me to come back, i just said i want my space and we will see. She explained everything about the stories and why she still dresses revealing. The whole rape thing she went through a few times, people forcing themselves on her, she says in her head she thinks thats all she will ever be. She said that she wants a real job, she wants a real future, but she feels like all she is is just a piece of meat and the only job she would have would be a stripper. She says she wears the revealing clothes because thats all she thinks she will ever be to anyone.

I explained to her that low cut shirts, really high skirts, super tight clothes are not fit and not "cool". She said shes trying and i said my insecurities cant handle it, i can only look at her dressing really badly before i just break down again.

Maybe its just me, but i dont think any girl should dress revealing, but if they do, once they get a boyfriend that should end. No need to show your body off once you have someone you claim is all you way. You know?





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