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Hi there,

I've never posted here before. But here goes.

I dated my boyfriend for just over 3 years. We broke up this past February. He cheated on me but denied it. I knew something was going on, and I had finally had enough, so I left.. I love him more than anything, but he can look me straight in the face and lie, like it's nothing..

Anyway, he recently started dating the girl he cheated on me withs best friend. Of course that cause a whole lot more drama, and they weren't friends anymore. This girl, well isn't one to bring home to mommy. She has thought she was pregnant a few times before, and he knew that before going into the relationship. He used to call me every time they had a fight, and tell me that he missed me, and he should have never let me go. I eventually stopped answering.

Well, I answered the other night. He had broken up with her... For good this time. He wanted to know if there was any way we could begin a friendship again. I have trouble forgiving, and I thought this could be a good opportunity to help myself be a stronger person. Well, hanging out with him again brought back feelings I thought I had gotten over. I love him. I didn't give any hints whatsoever that I was feeling this way, because I didn't think I was ready to get into anything again.

His "new" Ex sent me an email. She was 6 weeks pregnant with his child, but lost the baby. She had a eptopic pregnancy. These never survive. None the less he got a girl pregnant that was his rebound. He doesn't love her, or care for her really. They were just "sex buddies" for the most part. She has issues with rejection, and she knew he was talking to me during their relationship. She was abusive towards him, punching him and throwing things. Some of the parties that know about this think she got pregnant on purpose to make him stay with her. It was both of their responsibility to take the steps to avoid this. But she didn't bother taking the morning after pill or putting herself on birth control. At the same time, he didn't wear protection.

I had made it clear I wanted nothing with him at that time, she was convinced that he wanted to get back with me.

Well, he does. Now. He couldn't tell me about what happened. He's lied to me so many times before. I wanted something with him this last time when I found out they broke up. But what now? He made a baby with someone else..
Whether or not it survived doesn't mean a thing. He swears he loves me, and that when it happened he freaked. That he was wishing I was the one with his child... I don't know what to do. I don't think I can ever believe anything he says. I'm so upset, and don't know what to do.

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