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Re: Boyfriend's dad
Jul 17, 2008
We both get along great. I dont plan on leaving him but the stress that comes from his dad on top of the financial/school issues just makes things worse. We both come from pretty messed up families. My dad was a drunk until i was like 6, my mom gave him an ultimatum and he quit cold turkey. I'm very lucky to not remember much of it. Unfortunately for me, my dad still continued to be an emotional abuser. I don't talk to him right now, I feel very hurt and have made the decision that when HE decides that he wants to have a relationship with me I will be happy to be part of it. I wish my bf would understand that just b/c you are family doesn't mean that you have to put up that kind of stuff. Because of the crap I put up with when I was younger I am a little bit mature for my age.All the things that his dad does to me are the same things that he does to his kids. I just wanna go up to his dad and tell him that its pretty sad that the only thing his kid says about him when he acts that way is that he'll be dead in 5 years anyways.
Re: Boyfriend's dad
Jul 18, 2008
I never said I was going to tell him off. I said that he makes me want to do that. Also I dont want to sound bitchy but it is my place to tell his dad off if everything he says is to personally attack me. I dont do it b/c I dont want to make anything worse. Honestly if I told him off my bf would not care. He has a very touchy relationship with his dad due to his alcoholism. Whenever I talk to him about telling his dad to go to AA all he says is hes going to die in like 5 year anyways. How much worse do you really think it could get?Also I came here for advice about his dad. I never said that there was anything wrong with my relationship with my bf. If there was we wouldnt have lasted 4 years. Thats most than a lot of marriages.
Re: Boyfriend's dad
Jul 18, 2008
[QUOTE=llama4u447;3653279]I never said I was going to tell him off. I said that he makes me want to do that. Also I dont want to sound bitchy but it is my place to tell his dad off if everything he says is to personally attack me. I dont do it b/c I dont want to make anything worse. Honestly if I told him off my bf would not care. He has a very touchy relationship with his dad due to his alcoholism. Whenever I talk to him about telling his dad to go to AA all he says is hes going to die in like 5 year anyways. How much worse do you really think it could get?Also I came here for advice about his dad. I never said that there was anything wrong with my relationship with my bf. If there was we wouldnt have lasted 4 years. Thats most than a lot of marriages.[/QUOTE]


wow I didn't realize you were with him for 4 years......that's almost like......forever! By all means then tell the man off......it's not just your right.....it's practically your responsibility!!!!
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