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This is amazing news! :D I am so proud of you. Seriously, good for you for telling her. You did the complete right thing! But I'm sure you realize this already.

This is the best thing you could have possibly done for your girlfriend in this situation, and trust me, I'm sure she realizes it. The fact that you would be so honest with her is not lost on her, I'm sure. I know that even if I was upset or angry at my boyfriend for telling me, I would still know that he's a good person at heart because he fessed up when he could have easily lied to me about it.

Now your guilt is gone, there is no lying and your relationship can continue to be a healthy, completely honest one once you two work past this. There don't need to be any secrets and you can look into her eyes knowing that her trust in you isn't misplaced.

She may very well need the time to herself for a few days, and she might get more upset or angry in that time. Just be patient. That is actually how I deal with bad news too. I'm understanding at first and then process my feelings later. But the fact that she didn't leave you and she said she still loves you is really good news :)

I am so happy for the both of you! This isn't an easy situation but it sounds like it's going as good as it possibly can, and I'm so happy about that.

I wish you all the best. Please let us know how everything works out.





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