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This guy is so, so, SO not worth your time!! If you were my friend in real life, I'd seriously shake you and make you understand why it's stupid to stay with this guy. There's nothing there. There's no love, respect, mutual adoration, nothing. It's just a big old wad of crap, basically. I really just hope that you will listen to me when I tell you, this guy is NOT for you. He doesn't treat you well, he lies, he lies again, and then he lies some more. You've already said you don't trust him. If you can't trust him, there's no foundation. And what happens to a house with no foundation? It falls. Your relationship is completely and totally cracked to the core, and there's nothing left to hang on to. The sooner you get rid of this guy, the sooner you can start focusing on you, your health (both of which need to be your first priority), and rebuilding your self esteem.

I know that part of the problem is that women especially who have eating disorders tend to have very bad self-esteem. And that's probably why you're staying with a guy who treats you so bad. Because you honestly believe that you don't think you can find anyone else. I can tell you from experience that's completely not true. And although you might have to spend some time alone (which would actually be good for you), you will totally find a much better guy than this shmoe. He's a tool. And he doesn't deserve you. You're way better than this, and I hope that you will please just love yourself and honor yourself, and get rid of him. Please just do this. Your recovery from your eating disorder will be so much more meaningful and true if you get rid of this extremely negative thing in your life that is doing more to screw you up than to even remotely help you in any way.

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