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Re: Again
Aug 26, 2008
Blue, you poor thing. Girl, you need some serious WILLPOWER!! Let this be the last time this guy hurt you, and the very last chance you ever gave him! GOOD RIDDANCE of this guy!

When he was previously out of your life for months, did you two have any contact? Don't message him, even to leave things on a "good" note. Leave things alone, period. Who cares what exact note they were left on. I truly believe the ONLY way you will be able to get over him (slowly) is to break off contact with him. Maybe you should delete his number!

Why are you so nice to him? I think I'd have a lot of resentment and anger towards someone who had hurt me REPEATEDLY. Don't let him walk all over you.

Do you have friends and family that will be there for you to vent to and help you get over him?

You seem like a sweet girl with a good heart who just wants to love and be loved. Let your wounds heal. Try to be more optimistic. Maybe you could change up your hair, like get highlights or a different cut - something to make you feel a little better about yourself for even a day. Buy a new outfit and go out with your girlfriends. Work out. Go for a walk. CRY - let yourself grieve (you did just lose someone you love). Listen to some good breakup songs (I'd suggest some but I'm not sure I'm allowed to on here.) Have a movie night with a friend. Stay busy to keep your mind off him, and YES you WILL get over him! It may take a few months (or longer - it took a friend of mine a full year to get completely over her ex fiance), but it will be worth it! You will be sad, and lonely, and hurt, and angry, but once you get past all that, you will probably be happier than you've been in a long time!

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