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[QUOTE=dma11663;3725940]She probably lied to you and thouht she wouldn't get caught.

She did....and now you need to leave her be. If she did it to you she will do it again to you and she will be a cheat forever.

You deserve better. Get rid of her and build yourself up. Look for the love and respect you deserve. the pain goes away (not always completely) or it gets easier to deal with over time. Just don't let this change you, she will regret what she did.[/QUOTE]

Yeah, she and I already broke up a few weeks ago. I just hate that people are capable of doing this to one another. I hate that anyone could ever cheat on their significant other after building up trust and making a commitment to a monogamous relationship. Like my girlfriend would have been one of the last people I would have expected to do something like that, because I thought she had so much integrity and moral strength. I think about what she did, and then I see the girls walking around my college campus, and you can just see that a lot of them just don't have that same level of integrity. If she could do something like that, then I bet most of them could do it, too.

I think right now I'm just a little disgusted with people in general. I was talking to a friend about this tonight and we realized that we have a lot of female friends who are just very weak. They have low self-esteem and they are emotionally weak, and it is just disheartening to realize that a lot of them have probably succumb to weakness at some point and cheated on their boyfriends. Don't get me wrong, guys cheat too. But not me. I couldn't live with myself after betraying someone like that and causing so much pain.

Thank you for your advice. I'm sure that in time, I'll find someone else to fall in love with, and I'm sure I will find it in me to trust that person.

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