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When I was very young I had a real problem with having smaller breasts.... and it was intensified by dating a man that would stare at women with large breasts and bought magazines called 40Plus.. etc.... I felt totally inadequate around him.... yet never admitted it to him. As I look back.... he was a total jerk.

I like tall men..... Do I think shorter men aren't worthy.....GOD NO. It's a preference I have (maybe because all the men in my family are 6.4 and over??) If I fell for a man that was on the shorter side would I think less of him??? NO WAY, and I have fallen for short men. Would I be wishing he was taller.... Nope. Now if I was dating a man that was insecure about his height and constantly was bringing it up.... it would drive me crazy especially if I had given him no reason to feel that way. You have to think about it...put the shoe on the other foot... would you want to constantly be reassuring your boyfriend about his looks? Wouldn't you get to the point where you had had it? Having said that, what he said was WRONG. Perhaps he simply had had it, like another poster said... but you simply don't say that to the person you're with regardless of insecurities or not... it's like cutting your own throat and hard to forgive even though he probably felt pushed into it. Unless you can get over your insecurities and you both talk about this... about moving forward.... you both are done.

I'm not big chested and I could care less anymore if any man likes big, small, medium... whatever. Think about women that have lost a breast.... or a leg.... or an arm... and then think about how unimportant size really is. In the scheme of life... it's meaningless.. you just have to get to the point where you realize looks don't really mean anything.
Haha, it's funny that our problems are so similar yet so different. I have 32 DD breasts and although some guys are into that, my boyfriend isn't. He is constantly looking at porn of tiny little flat chested girls and comments on how he likes small breasts and bodies so much better. He makes me feel so insecure, but obviously doesn't care because I've told him how he makes me feel when he obsesses over them. It is so depressing to try as hard as possible to be what you know your partner really wants, and he still masturbates to porn that makes you feel completely inferior, self conscious, and depressed.

[QUOTE=cathy1;3750128]When I was very young I had a real problem with having smaller breasts.... and it was intensified by dating a man that would stare at women with large breasts and bought magazines called 40Plus.. etc.... I felt totally inadequate around him.... yet never admitted it to him. As I look back.... he was a total jerk.

I like tall men..... Do I think shorter men aren't worthy.....GOD NO. It's a preference I have (maybe because all the men in my family are 6.4 and over??) If I fell for a man that was on the shorter side would I think less of him??? NO WAY, and I have fallen for short men. Would I be wishing he was taller.... Nope. Now if I was dating a man that was insecure about his height and constantly was bringing it up.... it would drive me crazy especially if I had given him no reason to feel that way. You have to think about it...put the shoe on the other foot... would you want to constantly be reassuring your boyfriend about his looks? Wouldn't you get to the point where you had had it? Having said that, what he said was WRONG. Perhaps he simply had had it, like another poster said... but you simply don't say that to the person you're with regardless of insecurities or not... it's like cutting your own throat and hard to forgive even though he probably felt pushed into it. Unless you can get over your insecurities and you both talk about this... about moving forward.... you both are done.

I'm not big chested and I could care less anymore if any man likes big, small, medium... whatever. Think about women that have lost a breast.... or a leg.... or an arm... and then think about how unimportant size really is. In the scheme of life... it's meaningless.. you just have to get to the point where you realize looks don't really mean anything.[/QUOTE]





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