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UPDATE. crazy ex.
Oct 8, 2008
Oh My Goodness.

I just had a crazy conversation with my ex. I finally confronted him about the "Clist" e-mails that I had seen on his computer. The ones that he claimed were old and he wasn't talking to those girls. I told him that at first when we took a break I was blaming myself but once I finally realized that he completely blinded me to the fact that he was talking to other girls on "Clist" I stopped blaming myself. He didn't quite ADMIT to it, but he didn't DENY it. He made the comment, "who hasn't made mistakes?". He also had the audacity to bring up the "fling" I had with another guy during the first few months ONCE AGAIN. He said it still puzzles him to this day why I would have a one night stand with a guy I didn't even care about when my ex was treating me like a princess. He also told me this story about one of his ex-girlfriends who screwed him over and he made her miserable for years afterwards, making her feel bad for what she had done. I think she ended up staying with him or something but he continuously made her feel bad for it. I don't know why he was bringing up that story. I asked him if he was torturing me now and he said no. The conversation just went where it always does. Where somehow I am trying to defend myself about the "fling" that I had WHEN WE WEREN't COMMITTED, and the blame is taken off of him. He is insane! I can't talk to someone like that. It makes me so frustrated. And he never changes his mind. He was even questioning the self respect that I have for myself. UGH!!!

Side note: I am bisexual (finally dating girls since this year) and I have been hanging out with this girl, who I actually met and starting hooking up with when I was with him. (He was okay with me hooking up with other girls). But with her I got more emotionally attached and had to stop hanging out with her while I was with him. Since not being with him I have hung out with her more and she has treated me better than he ever did. Only a few people know about my bisexuality. I told my Mom recently, mind you, she is very conservative. And she thought something was wrong with me lol. I tell her sometimes that I hang out with this girl and she asked me if she is my girlfriend, and I say no she isn't, and my Mom says, good. I think it is going to be really difficult for me to be in a relationship with a girl, and I don't know if I can do it.
[QUOTE=dodedoo;3755082]Oh My Goodness.

I just had a crazy conversation with my ex. I finally confronted him about the "Clist" e-mails that I had seen on his computer. The ones that he claimed were old and he wasn't talking to those girls. I told him that at first when we took a break I was blaming myself but once I finally realized that he completely blinded me to the fact that he was talking to other girls on "Clist" I stopped blaming myself. He didn't quite ADMIT to it, but he didn't DENY it. He made the comment, "who hasn't made mistakes?". He also had the audacity to bring up the "fling" I had with another guy during the first few months ONCE AGAIN. He said it still puzzles him to this day why I would have a one night stand with a guy I didn't even care about when my ex was treating me like a princess. He also told me this story about one of his ex-girlfriends who screwed him over and he made her miserable for years afterwards, making her feel bad for what she had done. I think she ended up staying with him or something but he continuously made her feel bad for it. I don't know why he was bringing up that story. I asked him if he was torturing me now and he said no. The conversation just went where it always does. Where somehow I am trying to defend myself about the "fling" that I had WHEN WE WEREN't COMMITTED, and the blame is taken off of him. He is insane! I can't talk to someone like that. It makes me so frustrated. And he never changes his mind. He was even questioning the self respect that I have for myself. UGH!!!

Side note: I am bisexual (finally dating girls since this year) and I have been hanging out with this girl, who I actually met and starting hooking up with when I was with him. (He was okay with me hooking up with other girls). But with her I got more emotionally attached and had to stop hanging out with her while I was with him. Since not being with him I have hung out with her more and she has treated me better than he ever did. Only a few people know about my bisexuality. I told my Mom recently, mind you, she is very conservative. And she thought something was wrong with me lol. I tell her sometimes that I hang out with this girl and she asked me if she is my girlfriend, and I say no she isn't, and my Mom says, good. I think it is going to be really difficult for me to be in a relationship with a girl, and I don't know if I can do it.[/QUOTE]

ok i called him and left a message and said that there is no future for us and i dont want to talk to him again. phew. i finally did it.





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