Re: Fiance dumped me I think

I've always wondered what could have been. My only reluctance to call is that when I have called and tried to talk, I feel I am attacked each time and we get nowhere. It's always me to blame and even if I stay calm, it goes nowhere. It's not like I had an affair, I hurt her feelings in some way, which she has never really came out and said what I did. She is the love of my life and I would not have given her a ring if I didn't feel that way. It just seems that I am having a hard time getting the wall down that she has erected on the communication. How do I get her to drop the wall long enough to talk? That is what I am having the hardest time with. I don't want it to end this way. I've told her that I would like to come to a resolution or closure for both our sake, but there's that wall. A wall of frustration that can't seem to move. What do you suggest to get this wall down long enough to talk?