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hi guys,

well you may or may not know my story so i will briefly recap and then get to the point. i was with someone for about five years....he broke up with me however we still would see each other to have sex. of course i still had feelings for him and having sex with him on occasion was the worst possible thing i could do to myself. HOWEVER a couple of months ago i met someone. i really enjoyed spending time with him and i left my ex alone during this period....anyways the "new guy" (as i have referred to him before) left me out of the clear blue. he went from calling me everyday, telling me that he likes me, inviting me to his friends events, etc to nothing. :confused::confused:The last time i heard from him he was out of town and that was over three months ago.....

anyways last week i sent him a test msg stating: [I]i don't know what happened to us....but i would like to see you. are you busy?[/I]

then today i received a text from him here is how it went:

[U]new guy[/U]: busy for?
[U]me[/U]: me...would you like to see me?
[U]new guy[/U]: sex only.
[U]new guy[/U]: is that a no?

i didn't text him back...

so it is obvious what he wants but my question to you guys are WHY ARE SOME PEOPLE PIGS??!! [B]doesn't anybody have reservations anymore???[/B]
even if i just wanted sex with someone, i would take into consideration that i don't know who they have been sleeping with, i don't know if they have aquired a disease from someone, and what if i ended up liking them !?
in my opinion there is a whole lot of baggage behind sex whether we chose to admit it or not.....

so on top of everything that i told you, my other ex (the one i was in a relationship for five years) has been HORRIBLY MEAN to me (sorry i can't think of words that can express how rude he has been towards me). for instance, he was helping me with my school work however if i call him and ask for help he will put me on hold and not pick phone back up or just hang up. or he will tell me he is not going to help me with my school work, then call me the next day and ask me if i need help.....if i say yes...he would say "okay i will help you tonight"....but when "tonight" comes he is always busy. that is only one [SIZE="6"]small[/SIZE] thing he does out of many BIG things.....

the point is, i am trying not to beat myself up over the breakup between my five year ex...i am trying to remind myself that i AM a good person, i am handle my business, and do all the things i need to do in life, but it is hard to keep going when it feels like i keep hitting dead end after dead end.

on top of the only person i have ever been in love with disrespecting me,the fact that the "new guy" stopped calling and then told me he only wanted sex was a low blow for me.... :( i wish things would turn around.

:angel:
[QUOTE=lindsjean;3779966]hi guys,

well you may or may not know my story so i will briefly recap and then get to the point. i was with someone for about five years....he broke up with me however we still would see each other to have sex. of course i still had feelings for him and having sex with him on occasion was the worst possible thing i could do to myself. HOWEVER a couple of months ago i met someone. i really enjoyed spending time with him and i left my ex alone during this period....anyways the "new guy" (as i have referred to him before) left me out of the clear blue. he went from calling me everyday, telling me that he likes me, inviting me to his friends events, etc to nothing. :confused::confused:The last time i heard from him he was out of town and that was over three months ago.....

anyways last week i sent him a test msg stating: [I]i don't know what happened to us....but i would like to see you. are you busy?[/I]

then today i received a text from him here is how it went:

[U]new guy[/U]: busy for?
[U]me[/U]: me...would you like to see me?
[U]new guy[/U]: sex only.
[U]new guy[/U]: is that a no?

i didn't text him back...

so it is obvious what he wants but my question to you guys are WHY ARE SOME PEOPLE PIGS??!! [B]doesn't anybody have reservations anymore???[/B]
even if i just wanted sex with someone, i would take into consideration that i don't know who they have been sleeping with, i don't know if they have aquired a disease from someone, and what if i ended up liking them !?
in my opinion there is a whole lot of baggage behind sex whether we chose to admit it or not.....

so on top of everything that i told you, my other ex (the one i was in a relationship for five years) has been HORRIBLY MEAN to me (sorry i can't think of words that can express how rude he has been towards me). for instance, he was helping me with my school work however if i call him and ask for help he will put me on hold and not pick phone back up or just hang up. or he will tell me he is not going to help me with my school work, then call me the next day and ask me if i need help.....if i say yes...he would say "okay i will help you tonight"....but when "tonight" comes he is always busy. that is only one [SIZE="6"]small[/SIZE] thing he does out of many BIG things.....

the point is, i am trying not to beat myself up over the breakup between my five year ex...i am trying to remind myself that i AM a good person, i am handle my business, and do all the things i need to do in life, but it is hard to keep going when it feels like i keep hitting dead end after dead end.

on top of the only person i have ever been in love with disrespecting me,the fact that the "new guy" stopped calling and then told me he only wanted sex was a low blow for me.... :( i wish things would turn around.

:angel:[/QUOTE]






what a jerk !!!!!!!

i,d text back im pregnant and its yours !!!

and let him stew if he texts or not text back later is that a noooooo ???

and then leave it as that dont respond or anything u have had the last word

as for ur ex my god why are u even chatting to him dont even bother if he contacts u tell him u,ve won the lottery and waiting for the check bet he'd be right around helping with ur school work but again have the last word with this creep and i,d text him x thats right a kiss coz really he aint worth ur breath or ur text x to say goodbye and good riddens and dont bother ever again even if he contacts u please do nothing he desevres nothing from u





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