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well here it is. i've know this girl for about a year now and she's my friend. we just recently started talking to each other a lot more but the thing is she has a boyfriend and he's a total D.I.C.K to her. And she knows it. She even makes fun of him when she's with me. and tells me how he's so mean to her. i don't show her anything that would make her think that i want her in anyway. but she says she has been dreaming about me and she thinks about me all the time... And in the past 2 times that i've hung out with her she's repeatedly said "gosh you would be such a good boyfriend.. to some girlll" but then just today she added something new she said if i wasn't with my boyfriend i would totally be after you.

if i think of more i'll add it.

just need a girls opinion.
[QUOTE=TriKyShoT;3782004]well here it is. i've know this girl for about a year now and she's my friend. we just recently started talking to each other a lot more but the thing is she has a boyfriend and he's a total D.I.C.K to her. And she knows it. She even makes fun of him when she's with me. and tells me how he's so mean to her. i don't show her anything that would make her think that i want her in anyway. but she says she has been dreaming about me and she thinks about me all the time... And in the past 2 times that i've hung out with her she's repeatedly said "gosh you would be such a good boyfriend.. to some girlll" but then just today she added something new she said if i wasn't with my boyfriend i would totally be after you.

if i think of more i'll add it.

just need a girls opinion.[/QUOTE]


I haven't read any of the replies for forgive me if I repeat...

But Tri, it seems she's hinting very hard that she wants you to give her something to leave her boyfriend FOR. She sounds like she's one of those girls who can't be alone and she wants to know she has something else to go to before she dumps the bad boyfriend. She's made it clear to you she doesn't want to be with him. She wants you to rescue her and for you to tell her "if you leave your boyfriend, I'll be here for you." You say you haven't given her any indication you are interested in her. Why not? Is it because she's with someone?

I think you have to decide whether you really want to make a go of a romantic relationship with her. Is she really the kind of woman you want to be with? If so, let her know that you are interested in her as more than a friend but as long as she's with her boyfriend, friends is all you can be. When she's free to date, you would be glad to take her out. The rest is up to her.





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