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I sure wish I did have something to tell you to help you to deal with him. I don't. I think this is a case for a professional who knows what they are doing. ALL I can really tell you is to be safe. Make sure you don't compromise your own safety in your desire to help this man. I know you love him, and I know you want to help...but not at your own expense. It must be hard enough on you emotional wise.....be careful physical wise.

You sound like a very intelligent woman. You will find that for the most part the people on this forum don't take lightly to telling someone to leave a relationship. It is always up to the poster anyway.....but the advice given is more to help the problem than to solve it. Only you can do that. I would like to say, that there does come a time when you have to put yourself first. If walking away from this man right now is not an option for you, then you know you are going to have to be very strong in the coming months. I don't think this is something that is going to be fixable in one day. It's a long road you have ahead of you! We are here so you don't have to travel it alone, but we can only do so much. NO ONE can put themselves where you are and know what you are dealing with......and no one judges you on staying or leaving. I know you said you are atheist....whether you believe or not, you will benefit from prayers and both of you are in mine on this night. I wish you all the best!

Mileena

Wanted to add: Almost all benefits are denied at first. It takes an average of 2 years to get disablity started no matter what kind of shape you might be in......getting a lawyer might/should help take some time off that....but its a long haul either way. Look until you find a lawyer that will wait until you collect for his share of the pay.....there are those that do that!!





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