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Re: The ex returns
Feb 24, 2009
[QUOTE=Larrylou'smom;3897378]then I would say it's time to cut off the source of the pain and start healing whatever can be healed. It won't be easy, and it will take time, but really, it's better than going back for more.[/QUOTE]

This is something I have thought about for a long time.

No matter how long away from him, it doesn't get better. Unless its going to take me my whole life time?? Why is it so hard for me? I can't bare the pain some times. I'm so scared I'm never going to get over him, I'm going to be like this my whole life then I wonder how can I live like that? I can't.

I once almost got over him. He started seeing someone else after a big break up and I went to hell and back but as soon as I saw him and her I instantly got put off. Then months later he came back begging. I took him back, sadly. I was in a great place back then and I try to re-create the conditions but I can't.

Genuinely, I have tried SO MUCH to get over him. It warrants another thread entirely.

I'm petrified.

I sent him a message but I have switched my phone off and don't intend to open it again for a long time. And I feel so much more relaxed....

I am fine when we stop talking and even a few months after that. I struggle. Believe me, I have tried everything. But then when the 8 week approaches, I crumble, and no one, nothing can prevent me from making contact or responding to him.

I'm really thinking about therapy but I doubt it will help.

I just want to be freed from this. Either way, I don't care. With him or without him. I want to escape and if I could take a pill to forget everything or just go back in time and keep reliving the past.





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