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this is more than an anger problem, he doesn't respect you.
you don't need this, it will just get worse. he may be bi-polar or have borderline personality disorder (bpd)
staying with him sends him the message you will put up with it, he has no reason to change.
[QUOTE=rosequartz;3931437]this is more than an anger problem, he doesn't respect you.
you don't need this, it will just get worse. he may be bi-polar or have borderline personality disorder (bpd)
staying with him sends him the message you will put up with it, he has no reason to change.[/QUOTE]

I feel like if I leave him and he does have a mental illness that I am walking away from somebody who needs help. I wouldn't leave him if he had cancer. If I had an explanation for his anger like a mental illness than he could get help, start meds etc.

I don't feel like he doesn't respect me... not all the time. He does do things for me. He came to the hospital to visit my grandfather when he was sick. He takes my mom and I out for dinner. He comes to my lame family events and is very respectful and nice to my family.

I agree that staying sends him a message that he can do whatever he wants & I will just put up with it.... I agree that something needs to be done but I really don't want to walk away from someone that I love and who needs help. This isn't him.





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