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[QUOTE=Larrylou'smom;3984504]It's a heck of a lot better than being "that girl" who had wonderful romantic opportunities in her youth but turned them all down for the boy back home who turned out to be not what she really wanted or needed at all, and now that she's 35, all the really great men who were crawling over her in college are now married to other women. It would really suck to be that girl.[/QUOTE]

That's the story of MY life, and it's the reason why I'm trying to get you to understand why everyone is telling you to ditch this guy now, while you still have opportunities available, rather than waiting and WASTING what is right in front of you right now.

Maybe you're just not mature enough to understand all of this and the impact it really has on the rest of your life. But look at all of the wonderfully intelligent, independent, amazing SINGLE women who post on this board all the time, who are in their 30s and above, who can't find a decent man who is worthy - All because of mistakes that we made in our past just the same as what you are doing now. If anyone would have repeatedly told me then what people are telling you now, I probably would have said to myself, [i]"Wow, maybe they're right, after all they've been where I'm at and they know what it feels like to be in this position. Maybe I really can have a better life if I skim the dead weight boyfriend and start dating more compatible guys!"[/i]

I think you need to understand the bigger picture here. You're so concerned with what's right immediately in front of you that you're failing to see the implications of how the decisions you make now are going to severely impact your future in the next 10 years. It may seem like far away now, but it will be here before you know it. It's your choice but I think you need to seriously think about the big picture and realize how serious this decision really is to your future.

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