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I was over at my boyfriends house tonight and while he was in the shower I checked my email on his laptop. In the address bar I typed in the letter 'H' and at least 50 porn sites came up. I started trying this with every letter of the alphabet and sure enough the same thing. There must have been 500 links to porn. It wasn't just porn but also rating websites were you rate how hot girls are and pictures of Megan Fox, Jessica Alba etc. in bikini's, but mostly it was hard core porn. I get that guys like porn...but when your entire computer history is all naked girls?? doesn't that border on an addiction? I knew he watched porn but I really wasn't expecting that... Is this normal?? Does his thing for porn mean hes more likely to cheat on me??? Is there something wrong with me? I can't help but feel inadequate when I see the kind of girls he is into... He seems to have a thing for Latin girls...I am not Latin... I really don't know what to think... A few months ago he left his cable bill on the kitchen counter and I wasn't trying to snoop or anything but it was right there in plain view with about 5 or 6 xxx movies he had rented. I asked him about it and he said that it's normal and better than cheating... I agree, I would prefer that he watches porn rather than cheat but if he is THAT into other girls isn't cheating likely the next step?? And what about the celebs in the bikini's it's not porn and I don't think it serves the same purpose so why is computer full of it? Yes Megan Fox looks better in a bikini than I ever will but whats with the need to look at 100 pictures of her in barely any clothes?? I mean I find David Beckham attractive but I don't search engine him in a speedo... Is it just a guy thing? Should I be concerned or just chalk it up to my own insecurities????? HELP!!??
I agree that excessive is relative. Is his life controlled by porn or does he look at porn when he's bored and has nothing else to do?

Big difference between a person who is addicted to porn and a person who just enjoys looking at it once in a while which I think is normal for a guy. I see nothing wrong with that. I don't understand why women have so many hangups about it... I am guessing that's where the insecurities come into play..

Sunny
[QUOTE=sunnyrise;3985563]I agree that excessive is relative. Is his life controlled by porn or does he look at porn when he's bored and has nothing else to do?

Big difference between a person who is addicted to porn and a person who just enjoys looking at it once in a while which I think is normal for a guy. I see nothing wrong with that. [B][U]I don't understand why women have so many hangups about it... I am guessing that's where the insecurities come into play.. [/U][/B]
Sunny[/QUOTE]

No that's not it at all...most women find porn to be disgusting and therefore find it disgusting that their man would be spending hours upon hours doing something that most women find disgusting!





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