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I have been with my boyfriend/roommate/fiance/father of my children for over ten years. I feel so powerless and trapped. We don't sleep together, kiss, hug, say I love you, had sex maybe 10 times in the past two years. He's at times emotionally and verbally abusive. He doesn't act like he respects me. I have had suspicions in the past, as I do now, that he has cheated on me. He acts cold and distant and is controllng with the money because he works and I don't. Which means I am financially dependent on him. I have been trying to get a job for months, but noone will hire me. I wish more than anything that I could meet and have a relationship with a nice, caring, trustworthy man who respects me and loves me unconditionally. Instead, I am with someone who made a list of things I had to do if I wanted him to be nice to me. I am so pathetic. I am unfortunately dependent on him and feel like it is only a matter of time before he leaves me. I am 39 and feel like he has stolen the past ten years of my life. Well, I accept responsibility for that. My son, who is 9, has started talking to me like he does.

Is he cheating? He is emotionally distant and unavailable, we have had sex twice in 2009 and it wasn't even that good. He has erectile function.

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