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It amazes me that you're still with her. She knows you'll put up with it so she still does it. She'd never last with a man that wouldnt put up with this so she stays with you as you endure it and trust me, it will only get worse.

You must feel that you deserve this and for some reason think that it's okay for a woman to treat you like this. Layed back doesn't mean doormat. If you don't ask for respect you'll never get it and right now there is no respect for you from this woman. You want children with this person that will abuse them too?

Aside from that ... this woman is unstable and I'd leave in a heartbeat... unless this is the life you want... is it? Because if you stay you're going in with your eyes wide open and this is what your life is going to be like.
[QUOTE=cathy1;4614081]It amazes me that you're still with her. She knows you'll put up with it so she still does it. She'd never last with a man that wouldnt put up with this so she stays with you as you endure it and trust me, it will only get worse.

You must feel that you deserve this and for some reason think that it's okay for a woman to treat you like this. Layed back doesn't mean doormat. If you don't ask for respect you'll never get it and right now there is no respect for you from this woman. You want children with this person that will abuse them too?

Aside from that ... this woman is unstable and I'd leave in a heartbeat... unless this is the life you want... is it? Because if you stay you're going in with your eyes wide open and this is what your life is going to be like.[/QUOTE]

I can and sometimes do command my repsect. The problem is that she does not learn or acknowledge it because she is too stubborn. If somebody tells me that I do or say something that upseta them, I become conscious of this and avoid upsetting them. I dont want my life to be like this and I need to do something about it. I know I am strong enough to move on and could do tomorrow. I just want to wait a few months until my planned vacation to see what unfolds..holding on to the belief that it can work..





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