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I met this really nice guy on-line about 5-6 weeks ago. We talked on and off for the past 5 weeks, slowly getting to know each other. Well we finally met in person a week ago and he was blown away with my looks and seems very attracted to me as he has told me a couple of times already. The strange thing about him is that when we met in person, he told me about him being shot in the head along with some other injuries during a robbery resulting in him being left for dead with 26 surgeries later and many scar marks to show it. He seemed interested in showing me all of his scar marks thru out his body. What do you guys think about that? I don't have any problems with his scars. I think he is a really nice guy and despite all of that I'm still attracted to him. He even asked me if I thought he was ugly.

My biggest concern is that he may be insecure. After meeting with him last Monday and Wednesday, he called me on Thursday. I called him back and we chatted for about 10 mins and I had to run. So he asked if I would call him back and I said I would try to, but I never called, instead I texted him around 11 that night to say good night. I didn't want to sweat him like that. He immediately texted me back to let me know he had been waiting for my call all afternoon and asked if I had company and even told me that I might be a player since I'm very attractive and that I may have many guys after me. I assuredd him that none of this was true. He told me that he just wanted to see me that was all. What do you think about this behavior? We did end up seeing each other the next evening and had a good time. He didnt' act insecure at all, but talked about his scars a little more. Why would a guy point out all of his scars? hmmmm

He works for a prison and has some really crazy hours at times where he can not always be in contact with anyone. So last night he calls me from his office and number came up as unknown. He asked how I'm doing and then ask if I knew who he was. I told him yes, but he playfully insisted that I didn't know and wanted me to say his name, but I refused as I knew it was him. What do you think of his behavior? Is he insecure? He did tell me that his exwife left him because of his crazy work schedule and that he has been dumped by an ex for same reason. He told me that one of the reasons he likes me is because I make him feel comfortable and that I'm not afraid to touch him like some woman have been in the past.I'm guessing due to his many scars. I really like him and he tells me that he really likes me, but I'm just trying to figure him out. I don't want to fall for him if he has insecurity and trust issues.

Any thoughts??
Thanks Rose. See I'm not sure if he is all that insecure as he doesn't call me like all the time. We talk about once a day, text some and usually try to see each other a other day depending on his work schedule. I'm thinking that soemone who is really insecure would be blowing up my phone. Perhaps he trust me to some degree and vise versa. Again it has only been 6 weeks. So we are still getting to know each other.





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