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Alright, I posted about a week and a half ago about my ex boyfriend wanting space. We broke up a week and a half ago, because he wanted "space". He ended it really well, and told me that I was amazing but he just needed his time. We were arguing... but we have been together for a year and a half and have had a wonderful relationship otherwise. I am his first SERIOUS relationship, and we do have our problems. The first three days, I did not hear from him. This is not at all what I wanted to do, but I am doing this for him. I have not been initiating contact at all. After the first three days, I heard from him for 6 days straight. He has been saying that he still needs time and space but he does want to work on things with me and try to work it out. He has said that he loves me and he misses me. After the 6 days of contact, he went 2 more days without texting or calling, and I just heard from him again last night. He said that he had been crying because of the memories (he is NOT a cryer)... and that he loves me. He sent me a text message today with a song (martina mcbride: i just call you mine). I am very confused. He says he wants space and he wants time. This is KILLING me, I absolutely hate it, I just want us to get back together... that is why I am giving him his space and not calling him or anything. I hope I am doing the right thing. I am not sure how to handle this, he says he wants space, but it seems like he still wants to work things out after.... Should I have hope and just stay and be here, I really do love him. I feel like he wouldnt say all of this if he did not mean it, he would just be moving on. But then, he will go days without any contact. Maybe he just DOES need space- which I am giving him- but then he texts me and calls me and tells me he loves me and misses me, but he still isnt ready to get back together and I dont want to pressure him, even though I want him back so bad. What should I do? I really dont know how to think about his actions and what his motives are. He is a good guy, but this is really tearing me apart.

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