It appears you have not yet Signed Up with our community. To Sign Up for free, please click here....

Relationship Health Message Board

Relationship Health Board Index

I have been with my boyfriend for 5 years. I have a child from a previous relationship that he has been wonderful to and we have 2 children together. 3 children total. 2 days ago I found out that he has been talking to his ex girlfriend. They stopped dating shortly before we started. She contacted him a few times at the beginning of our relationship. I was upset and we talked about it. We decided that we were serious about each other and he told her this and that she needed to stop contacting him. She didnt for 5 years. Then all of a sudden she comes out of the wood work. Professing her never ending love to him. She is telling him that she is in an abusive relationship right now, and I think that she is doing this to get him to run to her side and protect her. He told me that he wasnt going to tell me that they were talking, but felt weird keeping it from me. When he told me about it I was sad. She knows that we have children, that we are a family. But she doesnt care. She calls the home phone, when he doesnt answer, she calls his cell. She sends him emails and texts him non stop. I dont know what to do. I feel like he wants to be in contact with her for some reason. He plays it off like it is no big deal, but I opened his email and read the emails between them. They were very sexually charged. Talking about meeting and the things that they would do with each other. Things have been very stressful for us lately financially. To make matters worse, I am also 5 weeks pregnant with our 4th child. He doesnt know this yet. I am scared to tell him. I dont want him to leave. I know that he will blame the pregnancy on me because I havent been taking my birth control...I know that this is stupid, but I wanted to get pregnant by him again. When I am carrying his baby, our relationship is very intimate and physical.. and I miss that when I am not pregnant. What should I do?

All times are GMT -7. The time now is 12:32 AM.

© 2020 MH Sub I, LLC dba Internet Brands. All rights reserved.
Do not copy or redistribute in any form!