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Hi,
I'm so sorry to hear of the problems with the guys in your life. It is so obvious to me that these men are very co-dependent and manipulative. Start just thinking about truth. Everyone is hiding behind a wife or girlfriend - this is complete dishonesty. If you have a good relationship with the opposite sex there would be no problem with anyone knowing. If these guys are hiding there relationships or trying to keep them on the sly - then there's a big problem. Another issue is this married man - would you want your husband to have a relationship with a single woman the way he has with you? I would not tolerate it at all and I don't know many women that would. Does his wife even know? Being called 2-3 times a day by a married man is not right at all. You are better than this. There is no way these guys want only a platonic relationship. Think about it. Relationship is built on trust. Both of these relationships are already failing their partners in this respect. You already had that happen once. Don't give either of these guys a chance to hurt you again. You are a chosen child of God and worth so much more than this! Blessings to you
[QUOTE=ciera;4109624]Hi,
I'm so sorry to hear of the problems with the guys in your life. It is so obvious to me that these men are very co-dependent and manipulative. Start just thinking about truth. Everyone is hiding behind a wife or girlfriend - this is complete dishonesty. If you have a good relationship with the opposite sex there would be no problem with anyone knowing. If these guys are hiding there relationships or trying to keep them on the sly - then there's a big problem. Another issue is this married man - would you want your husband to have a relationship with a single woman the way he has with you? I would not tolerate it at all and I don't know many women that would. Does his wife even know? Being called 2-3 times a day by a married man is not right at all. You are better than this. There is no way these guys want only a platonic relationship. Think about it. Relationship is built on trust. Both of these relationships are already failing their partners in this respect. You already had that happen once. Don't give either of these guys a chance to hurt you again. You are a chosen child of God and worth so much more than this! Blessings to you[/QUOTE]

Thanks for taking the time to reply, but you couldn't be further off. "Hiding" behind a wife/GF? "Dishonesty"? "On the sly"? Where did you get that? If my friend's wife is inviting me to their home and attends 80% of the events that her husband is at and that I am at, where do you get that he's hiding anything or being dishonest? I think maybe you might want to reread my original post and those after, because I'm scratching my head trying to figure out where you got that this guy is hiding anything, being manipulative or being dishonest. And how is someone being a good friend, visiting me in the hospital, caring enough to see that I eat when I've been starving myself for 4 days...how is that "hurting" me? Totally confused on this response...but hey, thanks for giving your perspective.





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