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Why should you break up now? Why should you double back on all of this now? When you started your relationship with him, you knew he was married, right? You knew that you could get pregnant, right? You probably knew that he would want the kid, right? etc, etc... If you play with fire, you may get burned. No, I am not saying that you got burned - this is just for emphasis, but you have to take on responsibility for whatever you choose to do. Of course, any decision you make may alter your life, but I think that not following through with this would be worse. This is only my opinion. I think it'd be better for you to be closer to this kid's father; actually, not only for you, but for all the people involved (the baby, him and you). It's great that he is being supportive. However, I think it may be a little difficult for you to be living near his family, not only for the possible scandal - he is still married, isn't he? - but also for the envy from his family. Ok, ultimately they will have to accept the facts, but it takes time. Ideally, you both should start living in another city/town, not too far from his business, but not too close to his family's house. Do you think he could afford this? Both of you will have to make concessions, you know. You move from your place to be closer to him, and he tells his family the truth and moves out to be with you. Whether your relationship with him will stay all right, only time will tell, but both of you will obviously need a lot of patience and honesty to face the new situation.





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